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bluelakedragon
Viet girls advertised in Taiwan like animals..... dehumanized......

it says:

-girl is still virgin
-bring home in 3 months
-no price increased
-in one year, if the girl escaped, you get another







http://vietbao.com/main.asp?nid=97988&catgid=4


(Đài Loan - VNN) T́nh trạng về các cô dâu ở Đài Loan hiện nay có thể tóm tắt như sau:

Con số cô dâu Đài Loan hiện lên đến khoảng 100 ngàn. Đa số từ miền Nam, nhất là các tỉnh miền Tây như An Giang, Sóc Trăng, G̣ Công... Tŕnh độ học vấn rất thấp. Hoàn cảnh gia đ́nh nghèo, khó khăn. Tuổi từ 20 đến 30. Đă qua Đài Loan từ 1 năm cho đến 5, 6 năm.

Ngoại trừ 1 vài cô dâu thoát ra được và đến gặp các Linh Mục để xin giúp đỡ, tất cả các cô dâu mà người ta có thể gặp được tương đối là "may mắn" (v́ được ra ngoài, được đi làm...). Đây là thành phần thiểu số trong số 100 ngàn cô dâu, c̣n đa số đều bị giữ trong nhà và rất khó để gặp và tiếp xúc.

Tâm lư chung cho biết: tất cả ra đi v́ quá nghèo, đa số lấy chồng như 1 cuộc đổi chác với ư định sau 4 năm có giấy tờ thường trú sẽ ly dị và ra riêng. Nhưng dù thế nào, trong mọi t́nh huống, họ đều không muốn trở về lại Việt Nam.

Riêng về các "chú rễ" Đài Loan và cách đối xử với cô dâu:

Nói chung, những người Đài Loan b́nh thường đa số không ai muốn lấy vợ người Việt, nhưng những kẻ muốn làm "chú rễ" th́ hầu hết đều thuộc vào các thành phần: già, tàn tật, nghèo, thổ dân, làm biếng, sống bám vào xă hội. T́nh trạng đối xử của những người chồng Đài Loan kiểu này th́ dù có kẻ thực ḷng muốn xây dựng gia đ́nh, các cô dâu Việt vẫn lâm vào những cảnh khó khăn như: không được ra ngoài tiếp xúc với nhiều người, làm việc rất nhiều trong gia đ́nh chồng v́ chú rễ già, nghèo, tàn tật, sợ vợ ra ngoài sẽ theo người khác bởi họ biết rơ ư định và t́nh cảm của các cô dâu đối với họ thế nào.

Riêng các cô dâu được ra ngoài đi làm th́ đa số hoặc là để kiếm tiền thêm cho gia đ́nh chồng, hoặc để dùng vào việc săn sóc người bị tàn tật, bị bệnh thần kinh trong gia đ́nh. Nói 1 cách khác là đi làm không công.

Cũng có những kẻ lấy vợ để vừa thỏa măn sinh lư vừa có thêm 1 người ở đợ phục vụ cho cả gia đ́nh. Truyền h́nh Đài Loan đă có lần đưa ra trường hợp: cả làng hơn 30 người đàn ông lấy 1 cô. Đây là 1 dịch vụ đang được khai thác bởi những gia đ́nh trung lưu có người thân bị tật nguyền: tại ĐL, mướn 1 người đến chăm sóc kẻ bị tật nguyền tốn khoảng 2000 đô 1 tháng. Chỉ cần bỏ ra 6000, họ có thể huề vốn trong 3 tháng và sau đó vừa có người hầu hạ suốt đời vừa có người thỏa măn nhu cầu sinh lư.

Ngoài ra, c̣n có những cô dâu bị lừa cưới sang nhưng rồi bị đưa vào những ổ điếm. Có trường hợp cô dâu chạy thoát đến được Văn Pḥng Kinh Tế Đài Bắc của VC nhưng rồi cũng bị người chồng (trên danh nghĩa) và nhóm xă hội đen tới to tiếng, bắt đi và không ai làm được ǵ. Có những thiếu nữ 1 ngày đă phải phục vụ 15-20 người khách.

Thảm nạn cô dâu Đài Loan vẫn c̣n đang tiếp tục do những cơ cấu lưu manh của xă hội Đài Loan với sự đồng lơa của nhà nước CSVN để khai thác thân xác người phụ nữ vốn hiền lành nhưng nghèo khổ ở Việt Nam.

Một tờ quảng cáo dán trên góc tường, giống như hàng ngàn tờ quảng cáo cô dâu Việt Nam khác trên khắp Đài Loan đă có nội dung "khốn kiếp" được tạm dịch như sau:

Cô dâu Việt Nam: chỉ cần 200 ngh́n, lấy về trong ṿng 3 tháng.

Đảm bảo 4 điều:

- C̣n trinh nguyên.

- Lấy về trong ṿng 3 tháng.

- Không tăng giá.

- Trong 1 năm, nếu bỏ trốn sẽ đền 1 người.
chinowei
taiwan people need some more education from mainland.... thumbsdown.gif
Viety_Cent
QUOTE
one year, if the girl escaped, you get another


WTF its not like their animals eek.gif
bobvu
taiwanese need to be a little less evil.
Suijen
^ Add in a high standard of living in Asia and that's what you get.

Shanghai, Korean, Japanese, HK, Taiwanese, they all follow that effeminate, it's-cool-to-be-androgenous look. Honestly, too pansy.

I honestly think that we Asians just think differently.
daidai
Taiwanese men are doing the same thing with the mainland women.

The gov. on both sides (Vietnam and Taiwan) should invest more into this problem, but I guess both are too busy with $$$.
blacklight
QUOTE (daidai @ Mar 15 2006, 04:11 PM) *
Taiwanese men are doing the same thing with the mainland women.

The gov. on both sides (Vietnam and Taiwan) should invest more into this problem, but I guess both are too busy with $$$.

The Vietnamese government publicly warned Vietnamese women about marrying Taiwanese citizens, and has tightened marriage procedures. And the Filipino government requires its Filipina citizens to take a series of courses before it allows these Filipinas to marry Taiwanese. The word is getting around.

I would personally want that citizens from countries that have a track record of abusing Vietnamese women be required to put up a significant deposit in Vietnam, which will be made available to the wife upon dissolution of the marriage. In addition, the groom agrees in writing to allow Vietnamese embassy personnel to visit the wife at any time without the groom being present.
bobvu
QUOTE (blacklight @ Mar 16 2006, 07:26 AM) *
The Vietnamese government publicly warned Vietnamese women about marrying Taiwanese citizens, and has tightened marriage procedures. And the Filipino government requires its Filipina citizens to take a series of courses before it allows these Filipinas to marry Taiwanese. The word is getting around.

I would personally want that citizens from countries that have a track record of abusing Vietnamese women be required to put up a significant deposit in Vietnam, which will be made available to the wife upon dissolution of the marriage. In addition, the groom agrees in writing to allow Vietnamese embassy personnel to visit the wife at any time without the groom being present.


it ain't going to happen. lots of these women are poor. they will jump at the first few dollars that are shown to them. it's same with the government. give them a few dollars and they will look the other way. this is just the facts of life. the strongs bully the weaks and the rich exploits the poor. vietnamese need to become rich so we can exploit other poor asians.
康师傅
QUOTE (daidai @ Mar 15 2006, 04:11 PM) *
Taiwanese men are doing the same thing with the mainland women.

The gov. on both sides (Vietnam and Taiwan) should invest more into this problem, but I guess both are too busy with $$$.

no they don;t..u can't find an ad like that in taiwan about mainland women..
bobvu
QUOTE (康师傅 @ Mar 16 2006, 07:44 AM) *
no they don;t..u can't find an ad like that in taiwan about mainland women..


you are right. chinese people are smart. they would never do that kind of stuff to their fellow chinese. taiwanese and mainlanders are both chinese so it unlikely that something like that happens.
daidai
I'm not talking about the ad.

I'm talking about Taiwanese men are deceiving mainland women like they are doing with the Vietnamese. Let me find the article for you guys if it's available.
康师傅
QUOTE (daidai @ Mar 15 2006, 04:57 PM) *
I'm not talking about the ad.

I'm talking about Taiwanese men are deceiving mainland women like they are doing with the Vietnamese. Let me find the article for you guys if it's available.

i know there are some....mainland girls got mistreated..but i don't think it is as much as vietnamese girls..
康师傅
i believe number 1 foreign bride in guangzhou are vietnamese also...
but they got treated well...
daidai
A wife is not to beat or torture but to love and to protect.









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Are Thai, Cambodian, and other SE asian women going through this too or is it just vietnamese?
康师傅
QUOTE (daidai @ Mar 15 2006, 05:23 PM) *
A wife is not to beat or torture but to love and to protect.
__________________

Are Thai, Cambodian, and other SE asian women going through this too or is it just vietnamese?

i agree.....many guang dong ren picked vietnamese not because of they are cheap, it is because they are good wife and culture closeness between vietnam and China
SuperNguyen
heh, i beat up taiwanese people and rob there money overseas...
Sideley
QUOTE (康师傅 @ Mar 16 2006, 01:29 AM) *
i agree.....many guang dong ren picked vietnamese not because of they are cheap, it is because they are good wife and culture closeness between vietnam and China

good wife: exploitable as a slave
culture closeness: accept their fate as a result of bad karma !

I think that the best wife for a Chinese is a chinese woman: same culture, same language, good wife for a chinese.
康师傅
QUOTE (Sideley @ Mar 15 2006, 05:40 PM) *
good wife: exploitable as a slave
culture closeness: accept their fate as a result of bad karma !

I think that the best wife for a Chinese is a chinese woman: same culture, same language, good wife for a chinese.

lol....
notnice2know
Fuk sake wat r they selling these day !! first it was baby dumbling nows omg
xyz
To stop this kind of abusing Vietnamese girls by some Taiwan men, could the Vietnamese government stop Taiwanese from getting Vietnamese brides ? Of course they could, but then corrupted government officials would lose money in this profitable business, also the communist government would be accused with violating human rights, restricting freedom,etc... so they said wtf, you are poor and you've got a daughter to sell? fine, go ahead and sell your daughter for $6,000 (quite a handsome amount of money to Vietnamese standard) and you the Taiwanese, you want to get some Viet girl?, fine go ahead, just pay some money to Govern officials. So the poor girl's family get a big chunk of the money, the greedy officials got some money, the Taiwan man got a servant and a sex toy! what does the poor girl get? in most cases, an old, handicapped, ugly old man she has to care for! who's to blame? The poor girl should blame herself for being born in a poor family and a poor country! her parents should have aborted her while she was still in her mother's womb! Vietnamese girls made a bad choice when agreeing to marry Taiwan men. Some of these bastards just want to get a revenge, the Vietnamese communist victory shattered their dream of recapturing mainland China with American help, a dream they held on since they were kicked out of the mainland in 1949. Vietnamese poor girls were being unfairly associated with the communist regime.
bluelakedragon
QUOTE (xyz @ Mar 16 2006, 02:20 AM) *
To stop this kind of abusing Vietnamese girls by some Taiwan men, could the Vietnamese government stop Taiwanese from getting Vietnamese brides ? Of course they could, but then corrupted government officials would lose money in this profitable business, also the communist government would be accused with violating human rights, restricting freedom,etc... so they said wtf, you are poor and you've got a daughter to sell? fine, go ahead and sell your daughter for $6,000 (quite a handsome amount of money to Vietnamese standard) and you the Taiwanese, you want to get some Viet girl?, fine go ahead, just pay some money to Govern officials. So the poor girl's family get a big chunk of the money, the greedy officials got some money, the Taiwan man got a servant and a sex toy! what does the poor girl get? in most cases, an old, handicapped, ugly old man she has to care for! who's to blame? The poor girl should blame herself for being born in a poor family and a poor country! her parents should have aborted her while she was still in her mother's womb! Vietnamese girls made a bad choice when agreeing to marry Taiwan men. Some of these bastards just want to get a revenge, the Vietnamese communist victory shattered their dream of recapturing mainland China with American help, a dream they held on since they were kicked out of the mainland in 1949. Vietnamese poor girls were being unfairly associated with the communist regime.



I agree with you except the "VC revenge" part. The mistreatments of Viet girls by some of the Taiwanese because some of these Taiwanese are just "no good people". anyone who treats another like that is just wrong.
They look down on these girls because there are poor, not Taiwanese, away from home, etc... but that does not mean they can abuse these girls like that. To me, this is just another way of women/girls trafficking right in front of CSVN nose. They should shut down all these "Viet bride dating" services down in Vietnam and making it illegal. Its degrading and misleading! I read there's a daily bus taking girls from the countryside to the city for the these Taiwaneses/Koreans to pick. CSVN isn't doing enough or not doing anything at all. and the ppl couldn't do much either because there is no freedom of free or organization in Vietnam. Imagine there are talk shows on TV and many non profit organizations out there helping these poor folks!

also, about the girl's choice. She has no choice. I don't think her marriage to foreigner is her decision. Mostly likely, its the parents. Her parents/family will get the money, not her. They are too poor and have no other choice. I don't blame on the girl totally.

sad that there are ppl in Vietnam spending million on gambling while others gave up their life to feed their family. sad that there are ppl exploiting the poor, the helpless. sick !
VOTAMVOTU
100000 of those women will end up having at least one kid. taiwan will be fill with a bunch of halfies and the fu-king losers that abuse their wife will pay for it
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