Viety_Cent
Dec 30 2005, 05:00 PM
this is worser then the chinese
Peoples comments are only based on their opinon people
and now I know that viets and khmers piss each other off due to bsing / and political reason .. and not for personal reasons
Reasons for Hate :
1) History
2) Politics/Government
3) Culture
moj0e
Dec 30 2005, 05:07 PM
i think u just answered your own question. =.=
cocoa_butter
Dec 30 2005, 06:07 PM
^lolz..he's right
i dont know..im khmer and i get along with alot of viet...shiet half the guys i dated are viet..so..i cant really say why we dont get along..
Viety_Cent
Dec 31 2005, 10:32 AM
^ u must be good looking
QUOTE (moj0e @ Dec 30 2005, 05:07 PM)
i think u just answered your own question. =.=
If thats what u think U_U
SilenceAngel
Dec 31 2005, 12:04 PM
There will always be a few people who like to start a fire in a forest.
khaviet
Dec 31 2005, 12:22 PM
I dont hate any SEA countries. They are all my friends. I especially have love for Laos, Thai and Philippines.
But still someone to make Viet thier enemies, what to do...
vietxboy
Dec 31 2005, 03:32 PM
why would you even want to get along with the cambodians...
havent they insulted us enough?
blacklight
Dec 31 2005, 04:07 PM
QUOTE (vietxboy @ Dec 31 2005, 04:32 PM)
why would you even want to get along with the cambodians...
havent they insulted us enough?
My attitude is live and let live - unless and until somebody tries something nasty. Again, there is a large fraction of Cambodians that don't hate Vietnamese. As for those Cambodian characters who act like jerks: none of them will be working for me any time soon. Now, suppose that a Cambodian's resume hits my desk: do I take the chance that he hates my guts, or do I save myself the headache?
cocoa_butter
Dec 31 2005, 04:59 PM
QUOTE (Viety_Cent @ Dec 31 2005, 09:32 AM)
^ u must be good looking
QUOTE (moj0e @ Dec 30 2005, 05:07 PM)
i think u just answered your own question. =.=
If thats what u think U_U
no..im average...but yet looks shouldn't matter eh?
y are u a picky viet guy?
Kenji shinoda
Dec 31 2005, 05:08 PM
I don't really care.
If they are cool with us, we are cool with them but if they insist on being a piece of $hit, we will screw them

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blacklight
Dec 31 2005, 05:15 PM
To cocoabutter:
"no..im average...but yet looks shouldn't matter eh?
y are u a picky viet guy?"
You will always be beautiful in the eyes of the fellow who loves you.
Happy Asian
Dec 31 2005, 06:27 PM
QUOTE (vietxboy @ Jan 1 2006, 06:32 AM)
why would you even want to get along with the cambodians...
havent they insulted us enough?
Those who insult us on forums like this are gutless cowards, they're too scared of us so they have to take it out online. In reality, Viets and Khmer can get along quite well.
eklypze
Dec 31 2005, 10:45 PM
Viets and Cambodians DO get along, but there are always some idiots who like to start problems with others for no apparent reason. Forget them.
QUOTE
why would you even want to get along with the cambodians...
havent they insulted us enough?
Who is they? The idiots or the entire Cambodian population?
eimi
Dec 31 2005, 11:14 PM
I was wondering about the same thing after reading some 'hate' posts.. but its not like that with every one.
blacklight
Dec 31 2005, 11:24 PM
To eklypze:
"Who is they? The idiots or the entire Cambodian population?"
The idiots in question act as if they are speaking on behalf of the entire Cambodian population, the way the Saudi Wahabbi loonies claim to be the real Muslims. Let's say that if the idiots are in charge, Cambodia won't be long for this world because they will be running Cambodia into the ground. However, Cambodia is neither my country nor my problem.
eklypze
Dec 31 2005, 11:41 PM
I understand that there are Khmers here that try to act like they speak for all Cambodians out there, but the fact is, they aren't. There are also some Vietnamese that look at them and judge the entire Cambodian population because of what these people on the Internet. Those people aren't necessarily "right" either.
This whole Cambodia vs Vietnam thing is pointless, nothing in this world will change because of what you say on these forums.
Dalika
Jan 1 2006, 01:17 AM
QUOTE (eklypze @ Jan 1 2006, 02:41 PM)
nothing in this world will change because of what you say on these forums.
too right you are!!
blacklight
Jan 1 2006, 05:45 AM
To eklypze:
"This whole Cambodia vs Vietnam thing is pointless, nothing in this world will change because of what you say on these forums."
This is the part where you are wrong. Thanks to these idiots, I will have to think twice before I hire any Cambodian to work for me, and the reason is very simple: my workplace is a multicultural environment that includes Vietnamese. If the guy can't stand Vietnamese, then he doesn't belong in my workplace. You don't think that words have no weight, do you? And by the way, that's the reason I try not to offend people with careless words or gratuitous insults - This kind of behavior really creates an impression.
blacklight
Jan 1 2006, 05:53 AM
The behavior of these idiots reminds me of the behavior of these corrupt African elites: they take the aid, they act like jerks and insult the donors, and they can't understand why the aid will be cut next year.
Dalika
Jan 1 2006, 06:09 AM
hey blacklight, you will onli think twice about hiring Cambodians? Y wont you think twice about hiring and Italian?
Most Cambodian people i know dont hate Viets. They dont care about all that has or are currntly happening between the two nations. You hate people for what they have done to you rather than hating the whole race.
you know this forum is the first place i've seen so much racism between Cambodians and Vietnamese.
everyone is different ya know??
crew
Jan 1 2006, 06:27 AM
QUOTE (blacklight @ Jan 1 2006, 03:45 AM)
To eklypze:
"This whole Cambodia vs Vietnam thing is pointless, nothing in this world will change because of what you say on these forums."
This is the part where you are wrong. Thanks to these idiots, I will have to think twice before I hire any Cambodian to work for me, and the reason is very simple: my workplace is a multicultural environment that includes Vietnamese. If the guy can't stand Vietnamese, then he doesn't belong in my workplace. You don't think that words have no weight, do you? And by the way, that's the reason I try not to offend people with careless words or gratuitous insults - This kind of behavior really creates an impression.
You know there are anti-discrimination laws in the workplace employers must follow. People can sue you if they feel that they are discriminated against. I would imagine a lot of complaints on the employees part considering how their boss views are.
TaySon
Jan 1 2006, 06:29 AM
There are many excuses he could use to not hire someone. It's dead easy.
crew
Jan 1 2006, 06:32 AM
QUOTE (TaySon @ Jan 1 2006, 04:29 AM)
There are many excuses he could use to not hire someone. It's dead easy.
The proof is right here:
QUOTE
QUOTE(blacklight @ Jan 1 2006, 03:45 AM)
To eklypze:
"This whole Cambodia vs Vietnam thing is pointless, nothing in this world will change because of what you say on these forums."
This is the part where you are wrong. Thanks to these idiots, I will have to think twice before I hire any Cambodian to work for me, and the reason is very simple: my workplace is a multicultural environment that includes Vietnamese. If the guy can't stand Vietnamese, then he doesn't belong in my workplace. You don't think that words have no weight, do you? And by the way, that's the reason I try not to offend people with careless words or gratuitous insults - This kind of behavior really creates an impression.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts. I hope your company thrives.
TaySon
Jan 1 2006, 06:35 AM
Like I said, employers aren't that stupid as to say that they don't wanna hire someone base on their ethnicity. There are more subtle ways.
Frankly I think Cambodians are cool to be around but I'm not sure about their work ethics or now committed they are to it.
blacklight
Jan 1 2006, 06:35 AM
To Dalika:
"hey blacklight, you will onli think twice about hiring Cambodians? Y wont you think twice about hiring and Italian?"
I said I would have to think twice about hiring a Cambodian - I did not say I would throw his resume into the trash without any further ceremony. I do fully understand that a large fraction of Cambodians in Cambodia don't hate Vietnamese, and I do understand that there is a lot of intermarriage between Khmers and Vietnamese in Vietnam. In fact, I think I do have some Khmer ancestry from somewhere - This is why I have to think twice and ask carefully: I don't want to damage or hurt innocent people. On the other hand, I'd rather not get insulted or harassed, if I can avoid it.
As for thinking twice about hiring an Italian: I can't remember the last time Italians have insulted Vietnamese. But in general, I avoid hiring racists or jerks: they are bad for workplace morale.
crew
Jan 1 2006, 06:40 AM
QUOTE (TaySon @ Jan 1 2006, 04:35 AM)
Like I said, employers aren't that stupid as to say that they don't wanna hire someone base on their ethnicity. There are more subtle ways.
Frankly I think Cambodians are cool to be around but I'm not sure about their work ethics or now committed they are to it.
Cambodians are especially committed if their boss is Khmer. Same goes for other ethnicities. Vietnamese would be more committed than would a Khmer if the boss is a Vietnamese.
blacklight
Jan 1 2006, 06:51 AM
To crew:
"Cambodians are especially committed if their boss is Khmer. Same goes for other ethnicities. Vietnamese would be more committed than would a Khmer if the boss is a Vietnamese."
What if the boss in question was running a sweatshop or a whorehouse? In this case, I think that I would be fully committed to seeing this particular Vietnamese boss out of business and in jail, where he would have to spend his days trying to keep out these huge, amorous black/hispanic/white inmates away from his butt hole. I live in New York City, where there is such a thing are Chinese bosses who have no scruples about exploiting and cheating their Chinese employees.
Viety_Cent
Jan 1 2006, 10:12 AM
QUOTE (crew @ Jan 1 2006, 06:27 AM)
QUOTE (blacklight @ Jan 1 2006, 03:45 AM)
To eklypze:
"This whole Cambodia vs Vietnam thing is pointless, nothing in this world will change because of what you say on these forums."
This is the part where you are wrong. Thanks to these idiots, I will have to think twice before I hire any Cambodian to work for me, and the reason is very simple: my workplace is a multicultural environment that includes Vietnamese. If the guy can't stand Vietnamese, then he doesn't belong in my workplace. You don't think that words have no weight, do you? And by the way, that's the reason I try not to offend people with careless words or gratuitous insults - This kind of behavior really creates an impression.
You know there are anti-discrimination laws in the workplace employers must follow. People can sue you if they feel that they are discriminated against. I would imagine a lot of complaints on the employees part considering how their boss views are.
Yes but there were always be racial profiling `
Surveys shown White people are more likely to get a job then black or asians
even if asians or black have better education
flipcombatmedic
Jan 1 2006, 10:13 AM
i don't think it's anything but recent history.
vIeTpRidEs_wOrLdWiDe
Jan 1 2006, 12:31 PM
They only hate on forums like this, on real life. 99% dont do it face to face
eklypze
Jan 1 2006, 12:56 PM
To blacklight:
All I can say is, you shouldn't let what flamers say on the Internet affect having to think twice about the people you hire. Sure if you've seen in tons in person then I could possibly understand, but why let Internet flamers get to you?
To vIeTpRidEs_wOrLdWiDe:
Actually, I'd say it's more like 90%. The other 10% are the posers that hate eachother because they think they're supposed to or something.
blacklight
Jan 1 2006, 02:03 PM
To eklypze:
"All I can say is, you shouldn't let what flamers say on the Internet affect having to think twice about the people you hire. Sure if you've seen in tons in person then I could possibly understand, but why let Internet flamers get to you?"
The haters act like a flock of pigeons who fly in, poop all over the place and then fly out, leaving people of good will like you to clean up after the mess they made. I do take haters seriously - that's how I stay alive and that's how I avoid nasty surprises.
eklypze
Jan 1 2006, 02:39 PM
blacklight
Haters are a part of this world. Not all Cambodians or Vietnamese are haters. We just have to learn to deal with them. It shouldn't only be Cambodians that you have to think twice about hiring, a normal Cambodians attitude towards Vietnamese isnt too different from other groups.
SwtKhmerGirl
Jan 1 2006, 02:49 PM
How are you going to say your company is multicutural when you base your hirings on comments made on the internet. Why nitpick on khmers and not focus on the big picture because there's a world full of racism beyond the Khmer/viet quirrels. In your case, you shouldnt hire blacks and whites because they have a lengthy history of blantant racism which still exist today so I don't get your point when you only screen Khmers for their ability to work with viets unless your a racist biggot yourself.
And fu-k that, nobody wants to work in your nailsolon anyways.
blacklight
Jan 1 2006, 03:09 PM
To SwtKhmerGirl:
"Why nitpick on khmers and not focus on the big picture because there's a world full of racism beyond the Khmer/viet quirrels"
How should I phrase it - I always keep an eye on those who hate me, regardless of who they are. Words are like bullets: once they shot out, you can't put them back in.
"And fu-k that, nobody wants to work in your nailsolon anyways."
I am the senior IT security specialist of my firm, and I am chuckling over it. I think my boss, who is the CEO of my firm, will have a good laugh about his firm being called a nail salon.
I know you don't hate Vietnamese, and I think you are a sweet person. Even though you are pretty mad at me, I am definitely not angry at you. I hope that you accept my good wishes to you for a happy new year 2006.
cocoa_butter
Jan 1 2006, 04:32 PM
seriuosly...all this discrimination betwen viet/khmer has got to stop..both u and i know that our every lives isnt like this...i have more viet friends than god knows how many...and freaking every viet pplz i know have khmer friends..shiet even my f*cking parents work with viet and they all get along...we're just making the worse out of this subject...
vietxboy
Jan 1 2006, 07:13 PM
i would take things said on the internet seriously...
ppl who say it online who dont have the guts to say in person obviously has hate inside of them...
let me ask you guys something... is a person who talks $hit/swears/racist/hate on the internet but in reality, is 'decent' /little to none racism/hate to others a good person?
the answer is NO!
your character on the internet is your character in reality...
those khmers including that khmer girl is actting/trying to represent her country cambodia and look down on Vietnamese ppl...
why come into the Viet forum and flame?
i would definately not hang around any cambos in life, except theres an exception for some few cambos out there who are born a kind person.
cocoa_butter
Jan 1 2006, 07:34 PM
^noone's flaming..it just piss me off how arrogant pplz are these days..i know its my fault for even responding in the first place where as in i should of moved on and ignore...but yet...its like every where i turn...some one is bringing up this subject...it's annoying
this is like giving us ideas how people really are these days... :-(
maybe we should just close this down? and all get along :0
eklypze
Jan 1 2006, 07:59 PM
those khmers including that khmer girl is actting/trying to represent her country cambodia and look down on Vietnamese ppl...
i would definately not hang around any cambos in life, except theres an exception for some few cambos out there who are born a kind person.
Sounds to me like you look down on us too. Tell me, of the 10million+ Cambodians there are in this world (forgive me if my statistics are a bit off) how many do you know? It's not logical to say that only a few Cambodians out there are actually kind in person, unless you know most of the Cambodians that there are.
SwtKhmerGirl
Jan 1 2006, 08:03 PM
QUOTE (vietxboy @ Jan 1 2006, 07:13 PM)
i would take things said on the internet seriously...
ppl who say it online who dont have the guts to say in person obviously has hate inside of them...
let me ask you guys something... is a person who talks $hit/swears/racist/hate on the internet but in reality, is 'decent' /little to none racism/hate to others a good person?
the answer is NO!
your character on the internet is your character in reality...
those khmers including that khmer girl is actting/trying to represent her country cambodia and look down on Vietnamese ppl...
why come into the Viet forum and flame?
i would definately not hang around any cambos in life, except theres an exception for some few cambos out there who are born a kind person.
You know I've tried being nice with the Vietnamese people, Before I signed on AF I was a memeber in the Khmerconnection forum which is a forum for Khmers and other asians who choose to put their thoughts and ideas on a internet board much like this one. There were many incidents where Vietnamese trolls sign up just to bash us with absolutely no context to the topic and we get people like you who plays the victim pretending to be the innocent party. I am not trying to retaliate for the vietnamese trolling but rather giving you an understanding for my bitterness and how I've spawn to be who I am today. All I'm saying is, before you point fingers, take a look at your own people, if the viets aren't flaming the Khmers they are flaming the Chinese. Even your Mod is a racist bias wannabe Chinese trouble maker, how many times was he involved in a flame war(I've read past threads)
I would definately chill with vietnamese but try not to stab me in the back when I turn around.
tutu2000
Jan 1 2006, 08:30 PM
QUOTE (SwtKhmerGirl @ Jan 1 2006, 08:03 PM)
You know I've tried being nice with the Vietnamese people, Before I signed on AF I was a memeber in the Khmerconnection forum which is a forum for Khmers and other asians who choose to put their thoughts and ideas on a internet board much like this one. There were many incidents where Vietnamese trolls sign up just to bash us with absolutely no context to the topic and we get people like you who plays the victim pretending to be the innocent party. I am not trying to retaliate for the vietnamese trolling but rather giving you an understanding for my bitterness and how I've spawn to be who I am today. All I'm saying is, before you point fingers, take a look at your own people, if the viets aren't flaming the Khmers they are flaming the Chinese. Even your Mod is a racist bias wannabe Chinese trouble maker, how many times was he involved in a flame war(I've read past threads)
I would definately chill with vietnamese but try not to stab me in the back when I turn around.
Wtf?? Chinese wannable??!! Seriously you have a problem. Get the hell out of the Vietnamese forum, you idiot. The Khmers please do not hang around here with your flamings. We will stop talking about you. Calling a Vietnamese a Chinese wannable is very insulting and ridiculous.
SilenceAngel
Jan 1 2006, 08:30 PM
For those that are still living in Vietnam, I don't think it's fair for you to generalize and assume about Cambodians (or the other way around) when there isn't much interaction between you and the other race. I find the younger generation to be more open and more friendly towards each other. I think we all are an adult here, and hopefully, we can be mature enough to talk to each other in a peaceful matter. Of course there will be a few people who enjoys watching the flaming words being thrown back and forth between Vietnamese and Cambodians.
Also, some of the comments in this thread are very ignorant and without facts at all. Name callings, accusations, and false facts from both side are disturbing.
Why can't Vietnamese and Cambodians get along? ----
I think the older generation has more to do with the younger generation's ignorant than bad personal encounter with the other race. Cambodians and Vietnamese looked down on each other, and that ideaology is being passed down to the younger generation. I do see hope in our connection and relationship in the future in diverse countries such as the U.S, Canada, and Australia where personal encounters are more valid than the idealology of the older generations.
eklypze
Jan 1 2006, 08:33 PM
^ I agree.
cocoa_butter
Jan 1 2006, 08:35 PM
^ well written..thank u
blacklight
Jan 1 2006, 09:33 PM
QUOTE (tutu2000 @ Jan 1 2006, 09:30 PM)
Wtf?? Chinese wannable??!! Seriously you have a problem. Get the hell out of the Vietnamese forum, you idiot. The Khmers please do not hang around here with your flamings. We will stop talking about you. Calling a Vietnamese a Chinese wannable is very insulting and ridiculous.

HEY!!! Watch your manners! And besides that, you have no right to tell who belongs or does not belong in the Vietnamese forum. The fact that you are a fellow Viet on a Viet forum does not give you any right to mistreat, insult or abuse this young lady!
TaySon
Jan 1 2006, 09:35 PM
This young but very rude lady does not deserved to be treated kindly. Her mouth is fiery, and her attitude is just horrible.
blacklight
Jan 1 2006, 09:44 PM
QUOTE (TaySon @ Jan 1 2006, 10:35 PM)
This young but very rude lady does not deserved to be treated kindly. Her mouth is fiery, and her attitude is just horrible.
I've read several of her posts before she gave me a hard time. She was actually pretty reasonable, as far as I remember. I do think that her anger toward me is misplaced but I don't take it personally.
tutu2000
Jan 1 2006, 09:46 PM
QUOTE (blacklight @ Jan 1 2006, 09:33 PM)
HEY!!! Watch your manners! And besides that, you have no right to tell who belongs or does not belong in the Vietnamese forum. The fact that you are a fellow Viet on a Viet forum does not give you any right to mistreat, insult or abuse this young lady!
Read my post again, I said the Khmers with your flamings are not welcome here. Did I say all Khmers? Please take some time to re-read the comments and flamings posted by that young Cambodian lady to see what is her intention to hang around in our forum.
SilenceAngel
Jan 1 2006, 09:47 PM
I had read some of her comments, and yes, some of them are very unreasonable. We can tell what a person is like through how a person conducts himself/herself. It takes a better person to reason with her, and not to jump down her throat. Also, she is not entirely to be blamed. It takes two to tangle, you know. Like someone had stated above, her earliest comments in the Vietnamese forum were very fair and well respected. After reading so many racist/unreasonable comments from a few, she became offended and begin to defend her race blindedly with one-sided comments (not to be rude, sorry).
If you have nothing nice to say then don't say it at all. A debate is always good for our intellectual exchanges, but without logic it's bias.
SwtKhmerGirl
Jan 1 2006, 10:07 PM
Fine guys, if you want peace I'm willing to swallow my pride but no more playing victim and inside jokes, its getting old.
My apologies to those I've offended, your not the ones to blame, my animosity is directed only towards byron, southstar and ncguy. I didnt want to take them aside and lash at them because its easier to offend a whole nation, I'm just good at pushing the right buttons, a defense mechanism I obtain from encountering many trolls.
Again, a big fat sorry for the viets not involved.
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