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khuanam
First of all i just wanna say Hi to everyone

I am from Denmark ( a small country, famost for it cookies biggrin.gif ) and here we are only about 25.000 Viets so its no so many so mostly u will only see vietguys with vietgirls here... But i have a cousin from the US there he says is normal to date every race, ethnicity and so on so is it just Denmark that we are sticking to our own kind?
shiro
alot of the Viet guys in Saskatoon go for Chinese girls
but it's definitely not race-specific dating here
drunkenmonkey
QUOTE (khuanam @ Apr 3 2004, 02:08 AM)
First of all i just wanna say Hi to everyone

I am from Denmark ( a small country, famost for it cookies biggrin.gif ) and here we are only about 25.000 Viets so its no so many so mostly u will only see vietguys with vietgirls here... But i have a cousin from the US there he says is normal to date every race, ethnicity and so on so is it just Denmark that we are sticking to our own kind?

Not really, i noticed that they mostly stick with viet and some chinese...



shiro: I noticed part of your signature said UoA, are you currently attending University of Alberta?
khuanam
Oh yeah ntw hehehe I have have been with my Thai lady for 5 years now so it was strange for my friends to se me going from viet to thai hehehe
Jayson
Around here I see some Vietnamese dating outside of their own ethnicity. There's Vietnamese guys/girls with Chinese, Korean, White guys/girls.

I, myself haven't dated a Vietnamese girl before, but I have dated Chinese, Korean, Laotain, White, and Filipina.
Nam Quoc Son Ha
It's quite common for Viets in Oz to date other Asian ethnics, but dating caucasians or non-asians are rare. When I say Asian, I mean South East and East Asians.
AznBabyGrl
i dont think that you can fairly say that there's a specific racial group that doesnt like to date outside their race. i think it jus depends on the individual.
Jayson
QUOTE (AznBabyGrl @ Apr 3 2004, 02:40 PM)
i dont think that you can fairly say that there's a specific racial group that doesnt like to date outside their race. i think it jus depends on the individual.

I agree with her.
ngo.ngochy
QUOTE (khuanam @ Apr 3 2004, 03:08 AM)
First of all i just wanna say Hi to everyone

I am from Denmark ( a small country, famost for it cookies biggrin.gif ) and here we are only about 25.000 Viets so its no so many so mostly u will only see vietguys with vietgirls here... But i have a cousin from the US there he says is normal to date every race, ethnicity and so on so is it just Denmark that we are sticking to our own kind?

i <3 Denmark's cookies ... that's something u can't live without.. and on ur questions, i agree with aznbabygirl and jayson!
khuanam
yeah i think so too.. I think its because we have a small viet community here thats why we stick to our own ..cant say about other places...
jenny2004
Actually I've heard Europe is a lot more flexable on inter ethnic dating.
I've dated 4 Asian guys in my life, including the one I'm engaged to (I'm white for those of you who don't know that). I dont' think there are many problems with Asian/White relationships in this country except maybe some isolated areas but not in general. I think in the US the stigma still lies with Black/White relationships, especially here in the south where I live. I dated a guy from Haiti and we had some problems, but I've never had a problem with an Asian guy.
But I agree its all about where you're from. I'm a Yankee by birth, and in the north its not so big a deal, the south is a little more picky.
I think that any area in the country where there is an influx of one particular type of minority, there is a clash.
There are areas where Hispanics and Whites have problems, Black/White, and I'm sure Asian and White as I've heard it is in some areas of Southern California.
Although, I do notice that when we run into Asian people, my fiance sometimes gets the "what the hell are you doing with that white girl" look.
But whatever, we love each other, and we don't care icon_smile.gif
Jenny
undercover
QUOTE (jenny2004 @ Apr 3 2004, 06:16 PM)
Actually I've heard Europe is a lot more flexable on inter ethnic dating.
I've dated 4 Asian guys in my life, including the one I'm engaged to (I'm white for those of you who don't know that). I dont' think there are many problems with Asian/White relationships in this country except maybe some isolated areas but not in general. I think in the US the stigma still lies with Black/White relationships, especially here in the south where I live. I dated a guy from Haiti and we had some problems, but I've never had a problem with an Asian guy.
But I agree its all about where you're from. I'm a Yankee by birth, and in the north its not so big a deal, the south is a little more picky.
I think that any area in the country where there is an influx of one particular type of minority, there is a clash.
There are areas where Hispanics and Whites have problems, Black/White, and I'm sure Asian and White as I've heard it is in some areas of Southern California.
Although, I do notice that when we run into Asian people, my fiance sometimes gets the "what the hell are you doing with that white girl" look.
But whatever, we love each other, and we don't care icon_smile.gif
Jenny

nice story and comments icon_smile.gif
DragonMP
I've dated a variety of ethnicities, but after all is said and done..... my wife to be will be Vietnamese icon_wink.gif
Derek
I'm into east asians.
chosenone22
where i'm from we're the only asian ethnicity that date within each other the most. others (esp females) dates whites and blacks.
Huynh
man u cant be racist these day, cause everybody is mix with everything sure.gif
khuanam
Thats whats wrong with the society to day... all mixed up embarassedlaugh.gif embarassedlaugh.gif
jonii-wanwan
Most Vietnamese in Australia still date within their own, mainly Chinese. However, Vietnamese guys/girls will date outside their ethnicity. Although it's not common. After all said and done, they normally end up marrying another asian (East, South East). I don't think the older generation is ready to except interracial marriage as of yet considering Vietnam is very confusious traditionally.
fujisan_8
there is a growing tendency for the younger viet girls to date outside their own these days in australia. I've seen a viet girl with this dark indian guy at a tet festival (shes very pretty) and another in a hair sttyling salon. Viet guys (older) were saying wtf you doing with that black piece of $hit. sad really.

umm anyway, ive dated viet girls hehehe...i generally think they are nicer and less maintenance than chinese, japanese or whites. plus they are caring as well....some chinese chicks i dated, fu-king hell, were they HM or what.
Rocky Cuong V
Whats with all this stupid question.
Everyone individual is differnt and has differnt perception and perspective. Some Viets, may like date outside there Viet Culture and some Viet don't.
This goes for every single cuture in this world.
Rappapa
QUOTE (Cuong @ Aug 7 2004, 08:56 AM)
Whats with all this stupid question.
Everyone individual is differnt and has differnt perception and perspective. Some Viets, may like date outside there Viet Culture and some Viet don't.
This goes for every single cuture in this world.

Took the words right out of my mouth eek.gif
khuanam
QUOTE
Whats with all this stupid question.
Everyone individual is differnt and has differnt perception and perspective. Some Viets, may like date outside there Viet Culture and some Viet don't.
This goes for every single cuture in this world.


And still u took your time to reply a dumbass question? Ai hier
aR3YouVi3T
i married a thai-laotian girl, my brother married a cambodian.............
Kewell7
QUOTE
And still u took your time to reply a dumbass question? Ai hier

hehehe Are u swearing in Thai?? if so COol beerchug.gif
khuanam
thats a secret between u and me beerchug.gif embarassedlaugh.gif embarassedlaugh.gif
vIeTpRidEs_wOrLdWiDe
QUOTE (khuanam @ Aug 9 2004, 09:51 AM)
thats a secret between u and me beerchug.gif embarassedlaugh.gif embarassedlaugh.gif

fuk you 2 , haha j/k
khuanam
wtf? "#¤%¤/&&¤#""@£$€ haha
vi3tlamgurl
maybe its just where i live but all the viet guys or asian guys out here just arent my type ..i tend to date more white guys then asian guys..but i want to marry a azn guy when i grow up
Johannjs
I think I'm colour-blind... :genius:
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