Are there still people, who hold up the old(and in my opinion not too bad) virtue, to stay virgin until marriage.


What do viet-origin girls or young women think about that?
I heard, in the US it is a trend, to stay virgin until....

Im not a woman

Im a sexy man

but Ill give u a hot sexy man opinon

Keep it Clean ......... before marriage

Cuz some girls have cooties and its dirty

P.S In Canada I dunno viet girls are more open but still keep to their family roots ...

I am a V and I plan to keep it that way until the day I get married. My mother taught me that premarital sex is bad so I should save myself only for my husband.

baby give to me.......
what happen if you get rape.....
u should give to me so its safe for u..........

I want to be keep it 4 ma husband.So I'm gonna get married vey earlyXD I think it's better 4 a gurl to stay virgin.It's better 4 her family and her husband^^U don#t wanna have a b!tch as a wife?!

MARRY ME MAI-MAI!

Wow the idea of keeping yourself at this age of time, fascinating...... Very unique. Is it really a Vietnamese thing? Many Vietnamese are like you two? Even the men???

i let the guy do whatever he want with me aslong as we don't have sex..he could touch me were ever he wants..but the sad part is...NO SEX...cuz i'm saving that for someone special..

Can he also touch you between your legs?

To the women who answered: Thanks 4 info, but I got another question:

So, U all are virgin, because u want to, or u keep it, because u think, ur future husband would appreciate it.
Or because it is a tradition to stay virgin?
In other words:
I just wanna know, if u do it on ur own purpose..

To all the guys above 20 and yet not married: Do u only expect a virgin as ur future wife?
Is it still important to u, that ur future wife is virgin?

And I don't think that a girl, who had sex b4, is a b!tch... she just shouldn't overdo it...

dumb. if you can do whatever he want to you i swear you would let him bang the hell out of you. i thought you are not viet

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yes i'm not a viet...what does that got to do with this?
he can't have sex but he could touch me anywhere and do what he want but not SEX



i said ANYWHERE. so yes he could touch me there..aslong as he doesn't have sex with me..that's mean his penis inside of me...that's a no no..hehehe

Well its not important if she is a virigin or not..........

most or not all will agree that they would a marry a virigin for the safe side.... cuz of sex education teachers tells us about the dangers of prematrial sex... and unsafe sex......... u want to marry a virgin to know that she is clean and doesn't have cooties ( STD'S) ....

well I am a sexy viet guy but im 18 .............. and a pure , clean virigin I want to keep it that way not for a purpose but for reasons.............


Girls who do it are overrated and seen on images as skank, hoes, whores, tramps and biatches................... although nothing wrong with being one.... they need to make a living

P.S this should be in the love and relationship chat ........ cuz this nothing to do with viet chat..... as it was at first but now its offtopic...............

i dont expect a virgin because i dont believe there are any left at that age. if you are not a virgin than who care if shes a virgin or not right?


so cat. what if he make you horny i am pretty sure you would let him bang you. dont lie

i stay a virgin cuz i think it makes the guy happy. and whatever makes hiim happy makes me happy!

You should save sex for the one u really love.... ..also if vietnamese girls have sex before marriage and everyone find out... it's a disgrace to the family.. so being a virgin until you get marry is the way to Go!!! That what health education is alll bout right??? Plus all the aids and STD $hit out there.. it's too risky .... 2

What about the guy? should the guy stay a virgin?

Judging from your post, i'm assuming that Hoa cua BoostedDogirl chua co' ai hai'?

i SAY... ALL GIRLS STAY virgin.


Smetime... life isn't just fair for women eh?

iT WIERD.. Because most vietnamese dont care if the guy has been around.. but when the girl is around then its a NONO..

AS OF Ur question to weather the guy stay virgin or not.. its up to them.. even though as of myself i perfer the guy to be virigin cuz it means something..most guy go out there and do the first gurl they get their hands on.. it's digusting it's not a big thing for guy to be a virgin but it's for girls.. In CONCLUSION.. I PERFER GUYS THAT ARE VIRGINS.

......Why do guys find it cool to have sex with lots and lots of gurls??? when girls on the other hand gets cheats.... life is unfair...

so we can get more expericne 2
but girls that sleep around that a

why would u guys need experience in the first place ehh???

What do viet-origin girls or young women think about that?
I heard, in the US it is a trend, to stay virgin until....

i believe he asked viet girls, i hope that clear you up

so we can make the girls we loved feel good

..."touch anywhere"

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yes i'm not a viet...what does that got to do with this?
he can't have sex but he could touch me anywhere and do what he want but not SEX

[quote=Pangul,Nov 8 2005, 11:46 AM][quote=caterina_xc,Nov 8 2005, 11:44 AM][quote=mark_lauth1,Nov 7 2005, 07:30 AM]Are there still people, who hold up the old(and in my opinion not too bad) virtue, to stay virgin until marriage.


What do viet-origin girls or young women think about that?
I heard, in the US it is a trend, to stay virgin until....

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i let the guy do whatever he want with me aslong as we don't have sex..he could touch me were ever he wants..but the sad part is...NO SEX...cuz i'm saving that for someone special..

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Can he also touch you between your legs?

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i said ANYWHERE. so yes he could touch me there..aslong as he doesn't have sex with me..that's mean his penis inside of me...that's a no no..hehehe

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i agree with you on this em gai. no girs would let their guy touch them everywhere unless shes not a virgin 2

That stupid... u guys dont need experience.. how hard can it be... get hard... stick it in.. dont need experience.. it's more romantic when both are virgins... watch porno it should give u enough experience .. 2

i am just kiddin wit u about that em gai. yes if both were a virgin that the moment they wont forget and its meant somethin but dont u agree with me that our generation the girls give it up too easy?

That is so true that girl gives it up so easy now.. .. I graduated from High School this past June and walking our stage was FIVE PREGNANT GIRLS.. most of my friends have kids or is pregnant.. i find it disgusting.. it shows me lack of parents disicpline....

that pretty sad, i mean i dont even think they could even take care of themself yet. its not really the parents that get blamed. its could be their peers, you know how it is back in high school, young kids tring to fit in with their peers

Iono.. my parents were the stict type.. no having guys friends.. no having friends that are bad too.. lol. i was a goody good.....But intresting to say I see that most Vietnamese parents are more stricter .. do you agree??

all asian parents are strict on the girls compared to the guys. like me i can do whatever i want and stay out as long as i want but on the other hand, they yelled at my sisters when they hang out late. from my point of view, when parents dont allowed their kids to do certain things, the kids wanted to do it because they are curious about it. let them try and let them learn on thier own..

Yeah.. that's the point. Even though I'm not a father, I think it's a good idea to lead the kids, but not too strict, kids have to trust their parents. They have to know, that parents are still there, even if they do some nonsense. . . But I guess, it is more a general advice for young parents .. so it's off Topic...

@BoostedDoGirl: Have u ever been in love? Did u ever had a bf? I don't mean this offensive, and I really like your point of view(especially at ur age), but u seem a bit unexperienced to me..

And if u was in love b4, didn't u have the feeling, that u wanted to be near the guy u loved. That u desired to feel him, to be as close as possible? .. My knees always used to weaken, when I smell a light scent of the one I loved...

uh, no. i'm not. Sex is sex. I'm not going to sit here and wait for the right person to come and sweep me off my feet to have sex with them. If it feels right, go for it...life's too short to wait for anything.

and then you get pregnant....or get an STD.

It's different these days. It's not all about how disgraceful it is anymore to have premarital sex. There is more at risk; that is, your future.

It's difficult to think of your future, all most people care about is the present, the "now," or what "feels good." I see parents as trying to preserve your future. They dont want you to do certain things, like sex or drugs...or whatnot because they see a larger picture. They want to secure your future for you, although they can't, they will try their hardest.

my parents were (and still are) strict as hell on me, but they're just looking out for me, and my future. Just be thankful that there are people who care.

@BoostedDoGirl: Have u ever been in love? Did u ever had a bf? I don't mean this offensive, and I really like your point of view(especially at ur age), but u seem a bit unexperienced to me..




Heheh. I'm 18 years old and yes ... I have a boyfriend... my parents were strict until I got into highschool.. the whole boy girl thing my parents let me have some freedom ..... but under one circumstance...... "my older brother has to agree with it.." my older brothers were always the over protective one but they always gave me my freedom..... for the unexpereience thing... only I can judge that.. heh. =)

Yes, of course there are risks involved, but if the person uses their head, then it'll lessen the risk...hence condoms and birthcontrols.

Even if you wait til you're married, how are you so sure that the other person is not infected with STD?

Let's say the person got tested before the marriage took place...time passes by, they cheated...caught STD...you're infected.

Either way risks are involved. I don't know the point of me explaining this anymore...but yeah.

It's sweet that you want to wait til marriage...but that works for you not for me.

i actuallly never thought of that. good point.

but i was talking about young guys and girls, who aren't able to take care of themselves, or who are not even recognized as indpendent yet (underaged).

and, by making premarital sex acceptable allows for having sex with anyone. either your boyfriend or girlfriend of the present or the future. but who knows if you willl stay together until marriage? you might brake up tomorrow, in six months, or even in a year. then you find someone else to date, and start the process over again, and again, and again until you find that perfect somebody.

If you think that your chances of getting an STD by having lots of premarital sex is equal to not having sex until you are married, i would think again.

people only get married once, twice maybe...but you date a lot.

again, this is my opinion, i'm not trying to impose it on you or anyone else. this might not work for you, and it's cool.

i do agree that the best thing we can do...is use our heads..

Kakakakaka,uh wait ten years^^I'm tooo young 2 2 2 2 2 2 2 2 2 2 2 2 2 2 2

I think it's ur own decision.All Viet parent are strict.Luckyly my parents are not so strict,only when i want to go to a party very late and where a lot of bad people are.So,i can have a bf.
Sex v4 marraige is a risico,cuase u can get hiv or pregnant.

take birth control and tell the guy to use comdoms, heck they even have condoms for girls now, its safe !! 2