QUOTE (StephenDedalusFromAsia @ Nov 6 2005, 02:11 PM)
Yeah, it is kind of weird. The Chinese forumers think so too.
My dad's side of the family is from Vietnam and very Vietnamese. They rarely communicate in Chinese and we prepare Vietnamese food for special occasions. I've even heard my dad and other relatives say "We are Vietnamese" occasionally, but they also say they are Chinese depending on the situation.
My mom's side is from Cambodia, but is still very Chinese. If I grew up and lived with that side of the family, things would be very different today.
When I meet Asians, I tell them my family is ethnic Chinese from Vietnam. They usually look alittle confused, ask a few questions, and that's it.
haha What does my past post say about me??? I won't lie, but Chinese culture attracts me more than Vietnamese culture, but I always defend Vietnam against Sujien, David Chen, DR, Kumonchu, and the others many times.

oh dw i can totally relate
my dad is from tra vinh (dunno where that is or even if i spelt it right)
but he is ethnic chinese (teo chiu) with a tiny bit of manchurian
mother is also frm tra vinh but shes ethnic chinese (cantonese) with tiny bit of vietnamese
i used 2 think i was 1/4 viet but i realised its actually 1/8th or sumthing now
i can speak very little chinese n more viet but my vietnamese is very poor 2

i'll be taking chinese lessons soon
its funny cos its my mum that can speak it but not my dad ......granda regrets not teaching him

so i think its up 2 me to learn chinese with help frm mum