Hi everyone...I saw that earlier someone had also asked about speaking Vietnamese. I've found that using computer software is the best way.
www.griessersoftware.com has a software called "A Little Vietnamese" and its great. it includes grammar and everything, and you listen to the person say the words so you get all the tones and everything. There are also a lot of fun games to help you remember and practice what you know.
I've also used Rosetta Stone, which is very good, however, it doesnt' teach you any grammar, and unless you have already studied a little bit, or you have the resources of a native speaker, you'll be a little confused. Luckily I have such a resource.
Anyway, I've found software programs to work wonders because you can learn how to pronounce the words, while reading them, and seeing pictures of them, and you learn to write it too, as well as the proper grammar.
I've already had very small conversations with my boyfriend and his friends in Vietnamese...of course they cannot get over my western accent so :P
But if anyone is looking to learn, thats my suggestion, also thanks for the website suggestion, I can use all the resources I can get
Jenny