QUOTE (Nam Quoc Son Ha @ Apr 14 2004, 06:26 PM)
They are a shame to the Vietnamese people. The Vietnamese language is almost lost on the second generation. What were their parents thinking? English is more important than Vietnamese to them? Where is their identity and pride in their ancestrial tongue?
Most of those girls can't speak Vietnamese for $hit.
It's more of a small country Vs. big country status really. A language can only dominate if it's influencial OR it has many speakers. Vietnamese unfortunately is not big in terms of population size of economic size to become popular.
Unfortuntately, for many overseas Vietnamese like myself, we are unable to fluent communicate in our mother language, it's because where I live, English is paramount and fluency in it will get you places. My parents being practical has always emphaised both my sibilings and I to focus on English.
There is a degree of regret, but it's an inevitable occurance. Once you reach your 3rd generation, it's a tough ask for them to retain their Asian values/traditions, it's too much of a burden really. Look at those Japanese 4-6th generations in America or many of the Chinese in Australia from the gold rush days, the only thing Asian about them is their physique and facial features.