So its been a while so I posted on here.

Basically, my girl broke up with me because she felt that the long distance relationship stuff was way to hard. It was alright back then when she was still in school since we talked and skype a lot at night. But every since she got a job we been really distance and then it happened.

I been doing a lot of thinking, writing, and singing so that I can get all my emotion out. But damn its really hard to move on since she was my first love kinda thing.

So lately I been working on a song based on the wedding dress music. lol but yeah it keeps me busy so that I don't think random $hit.


Anyways just wondering what do you guys/ girls do to get over your ex besides holla at another person.

Work out.
Write

tell your ex you're gonna commit suicide. that'll show her.

wow you have issues man. Go see a Psy.

First off, how can she be your first love when she really wasn't any kind'a love at all???
You don't know love and this person of long distance relationship is "true love"??? NO, NO WAY!!!

Stop thinking about her and find yourself a real person who you can put your arms around each and every night
Find a woman to kiss and hug until the morning sun shines through your window.

Oh, to answer your question ... I let go of as much memories and feelings as I can ...
drink some good cognac ... and look for another person to make me happy.
If you've got a good sex life going right after the break up
then its hard to miss the old person when the new person has got you inside her

I talk to him even when he's done talking and try to find closure and a peaceful ending, like yeah we are friends.
If he's a total jerk and does'nt want a peacful closure , then I realize that he's a loser anyways and I can live without him and that kind of guy is easy to get over.

I talk to a best friend who might be going thru the same thing and we cry together and go out sing kareoke and have fun girls night out.
I make a playlist of songs that soothe the heartache.
I get drunk maybe once.
I write in my diary
I flirt with other guys and go on with my life
I go to church and pray thru
I do something exciting like go out and buy a new sex toy
I drive by his house without him knowing a few times
Then I try to add him to my messanger list and my space

by the time Iv done all this Iv moved on and he is now just a friend.
Been there done that, it's like learning to dance in the rain.

Just let it go man. No matter what you will do if you are still stuck with her you won't be able to get over the whole thing. Just let go....let it go..

alright thanks guys/girls.

And to clarify. I been with her in person also. But a lot of the time was spend online cuz of distance. Whenever I had time I would go down to see her. Just kinda sucks.

But yeah its time to let go. like that one song by mflo.

i always think to myself.. its not like we'r going to get married so just get over it init *shrugs*

I plot revenge.... >_>

Bad Advice

I agree,
If she really loved you, she would've stayed committed. You need a break man, take one.
Maybe it just didn't work out. Find someone else to give your love to. FIND SOME THING
YOU ENJOY TO DWELL ON MAN.

Poems/writing
Running/working out/pain
Martial arts/violence

Anything that occupies the mind.

I beg to differ.

Telling the guy to commit suicide is bad advice.

Both are poor advice. Play the piano along with sad music.
Have a drink with a friend and tell them your sad story.

Listen to Michael Feinstein - Old Friend: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jtABADNJnT4

Drink.

I would get over it. It's just a person, it's not like you won't meet someone else and love them even more than your previous lover... I know I sound cold but, that's just how I am. If that doesn't work, then get so $hit faced (drunk), that you can't even remember your own name.

there might be a lot of good or silly advice in here but good advice isnt always good if being put in the wrong way..so i guess it doesnt matter what u do cos if u feel like doing it then go ahead and do whatever u want
but as for me i keep things to myself since its safest and then turn it into a ball n let david beckham kick it away far far away as possible from me cos i obviously cant kick a ball even if id want to kick any bad guys balls

That works.... ^^

Temporarily.