So I been dating this girl for about a month now and I think I really do love her. She been talking about having a family, having kids, having a "happy life together". And we argues somewhat and we almost broke up 4 times already. I love her so much and I spend too much time on her that I'm failing college right now. So lately i been having these mix feelings that i love her and yet i hate her. She make me so jealous all the time, always texting and chatting to other guys, mostly her EXs and yet she keep saying she loves me and even call me her husband regularly. I don't know what to do.. she is driving me crazy.. She is very pretty btw and all the guys keep looking at her and she know it kills me too..

any advice would be appreciate?

You guys have only been dating for a month and she's talking about starting a family? Shiet, run as fast as you can bro.

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You seem to be a very insecure guy dealing with a pusher => drama.

I'm assuming she's FOB ?

You really need to assess your relationship. You've been together for a month and ...you've almost broken up 4 times already? That's like once a week. Plus you should never be failing school for a girl.

Dump her and find someone that's going to support you through YOUR goals...as well as can make goals for your relationship.

Marriage after a month? Shooooooooooooot.

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Man! Is she chinese? I swear, a lot of the chinese girls i've dated were liek that. And I had to bail out on them because of that.

1. Break up? Or not to break up?
2. You have known her for a month and your grades are failling?
3. Almost broke up 4 times in a month?

Answer:
You are in a complex relationship.
Jealousy and obsession will not make for a happy love life and will dominate all of your time.

What you need to do is give her room to find it in herself to love you.
If she does love you then she will look for you instead of her Ex's.
Give her time and space. Then, go ...
"Go find yourself. Get your sh!t together." Stuff you should be doing.
Then, your jealousy will cease and the obsession can be replaced by true love.

If you can't find a way to give her enough time and space then you must end this relationship.
Why? You are throwing away your time and money ... college is for you to accomplish goals
and find a career that will provide for you for the rest of your life. Too important to throw away.
Women will always come ... many girls to come ...

i think if you really love her..... you'll have the strength to tell her to stop texting and having communication to her EX's...
and if she still don't do that..... i think it's the time to break up with her

Move on pal.

She is a player

I don't think you are in a healthy relationship. 1) the relationship had only been a month but she is already talking about marriage?!? That is scary, and somehow remind me of a stalker.. 2) She is always chatting, and texting her exs. This clearly shows that she does not respect you as her boyfriend to stop all contact with her exs (they are her exs for a reason, and unless she still wants something with them she would cut off all contact). 3) You are failing school because of her and it has only been a month?? Your future is way more important. Furthermore, when you are committed in a relationship both end of the parties should work together to help each other grow spiritually and emotionally. You guys should be a stepping stone for one another, and motivation for one another to succeed in your life goals. 4) You guys have already broken up 4 times. There is clearly a lack of communication and many underlying issues involved. If you don't communicate with her soon your relationship with her would only be an off/on relationship and trust me you do not want to waste a few years in one of those.

if you already had sex with her then its not love. its lust that you are feeling.

yeah..running is good option

All the excuses are fake. Only breaking up is real (not loving her anymore).

Do you love her or her company?

If things are bothering you, you guys should sit down and talk it out. Compromise.

- dated for a month
- talking about kids
- constantly texting ex's

if you do start a family with her make sure the kids are yours!