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According to Vietnamese culture, before you do Dam Cuoi, you need to do Dam Hoi first.

Yeah, I attended one of my sister's weeding. Dam Hoi is where the groom comes and pick up the bride and they do all the traditional ceremonial

Dam Cuoi is where all the food and fun are at.
If I remember it correctly.