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ducluu
I don't know how other guys are but when I see somebody better than me in (looking, money, girls, famous...), I can't stop jealous. Like: I met a bigger guy, I go workout to be like him... see a guy with his gf, I want to get a better looking girl than him. I saw any guy has nicer car than mine, I want to buy a better one... I had good friends but I just keep comparing myself to them and I never feel happy when there is a person better than me in the group. Sometime I imagine those guys better than me die off so that no one complete with me in life icon_neutral.gif I know its not a good thing but it is there in my mind and I can't get it out bawling.gif I just keep hating people for no reason even they r nice to me, I even jealous to girls too when I see them have better life WTH...??? I'm so messed up. Is it jealousy, is it the nature of all of us icon_sad.gif
shinnasuka
Jesus
Why do you think that way?
Atleast,the jealousy make you do the good thing ,ex: work out,nicer car

in somehow,It builds up your ambition

Even it is our nature. But it depends on people who decide whether it is bad thing or not
SoCal
QUOTE(ducluu @ Apr 25 2008, 12:47 PM) [snapback]3660765[/snapback]
I don't know how other guys are but when I see somebody better than me in (looking, money, girls, famous...), I can't stop jealous. Like: I met a bigger guy, I go workout to be like him... see a guy with his gf, I want to get a better looking girl than him. I saw any guy has nicer car than mine, I want to buy a better one... I had good friends but I just keep comparing myself to them and I never feel happy when there is a person better than me in the group. Sometime I imagine those guys better than me die off so that no one complete with me in life icon_neutral.gif I know its not a good thing but it is there in my mind and I can't get it out bawling.gif I just keep hating people for no reason even they r nice to me, I even jealous to girls too when I see them have better life WTH...??? I'm so messed up. Is it jealousy, is it the nature of all of us icon_sad.gif




There is a fine line between jealousy and competitiveness. Unfortunately, Vietnamese fall in the former definition when it comes to working together. Hopefully, the after-1975 generations can learn to work together and tolerate each other.
duong
You're just a hater because you are worthless. You will never be happy so just die.
Babyfox143
don't die. just live. but live in the shadows of others.


hahahahahaha
ducluu
QUOTE(duong @ Apr 25 2008, 07:27 PM) [snapback]3661403[/snapback]
You're just a hater because you are worthless. You will never be happy so just die.


I will live and complete with all of you, I never stop until I'm on the top madcool.gif , and if I choose to die. I want lots of people mourning at my funeral
Kaosq
I'm so jealous of your jealousy.
qwe123
yes
we're pretty good at putting others down
we lack in unity and co-operation
look at the 3 que
what have they done?
Nympha
You are not the only one. We all are humans and humas always want to be better than others. Be jealous is pretty normal among people.
TINMAN
QUOTE(qwe123 @ Apr 25 2008, 09:49 PM) [snapback]3661723[/snapback]
yes
we're pretty good at putting others down
we lack in unity and co-operation
look at the 3 que
what have they done?


You and the '3 que' are one and the same. Comprende!
OaklandDoughboy
QUOTE(ducluu @ Apr 25 2008, 02:47 PM) [snapback]3660765[/snapback]
I don't know how other guys are but when I see somebody better than me in (looking, money, girls, famous...), I can't stop jealous. Like: I met a bigger guy, I go workout to be like him... see a guy with his gf, I want to get a better looking girl than him. I saw any guy has nicer car than mine, I want to buy a better one... I had good friends but I just keep comparing myself to them and I never feel happy when there is a person better than me in the group. Sometime I imagine those guys better than me die off so that no one complete with me in life icon_neutral.gif I know its not a good thing but it is there in my mind and I can't get it out bawling.gif I just keep hating people for no reason even they r nice to me, I even jealous to girls too when I see them have better life WTH...??? I'm so messed up. Is it jealousy, is it the nature of all of us icon_sad.gif



Damn I give u kudos for saying how u feel, but like my brother Duong said I think u a hater in it's purest form. It's ok if u compare yourself to people but when you start feeling unhappy when they're better than u, that's a problem. I ain't trying to get Dr. Phil on you. But maybe you should paint or work out or find a hobby u real good at and get to know the true U and stop hating on other people.
OaklandDoughboy
QUOTE(ducluu @ Apr 25 2008, 09:41 PM) [snapback]3661705[/snapback]
I will live and complete with all of you, I never stop until I'm on the top madcool.gif , and if I choose to die. I want lots of people mourning at my funeral




U going to die sad and lonely if u keep hating. And just so you know, you'll never stay on top forever even if u make it to the top. R u still going to be worrying about who has what and what he is wearing or driving or who he's sleeping with when you're 50? If you are, you'll never find happiness then, cause all that matters when it really comes down to it is good family and good friends. Damn u are selfish though. You want people to mourn at your funeral? I want people to laugh at mines and say he had a good life. I want people to tell the truth. He was a womanizer, a gambler, a drunk, anything that I did at my life that can bring laughter to people, that's what i want for people to say at my funeral.
ralfi
QUOTE(ducluu @ Apr 25 2008, 02:47 PM) [snapback]3660765[/snapback]
I don't know how other guys are but when I see somebody better than me in (looking, money, girls, famous...), I can't stop jealous. Like: I met a bigger guy, I go workout to be like him... see a guy with his gf, I want to get a better looking girl than him. I saw any guy has nicer car than mine, I want to buy a better one... I had good friends but I just keep comparing myself to them and I never feel happy when there is a person better than me in the group. Sometime I imagine those guys better than me die off so that no one complete with me in life icon_neutral.gif I know its not a good thing but it is there in my mind and I can't get it out bawling.gif I just keep hating people for no reason even they r nice to me, I even jealous to girls too when I see them have better life WTH...??? I'm so messed up. Is it jealousy, is it the nature of all of us icon_sad.gif

My two cents: As far as my experiences goes, viets are very generous. I've seen a girl winning a very expensive book in a game show. She said she is gonna to countribute this price to the school libary, so all of her classmate can stand to benefit from.
vietman
QUOTE(qwe123 @ Apr 25 2008, 10:49 PM) [snapback]3661723[/snapback]
yes
we're pretty good at putting others down
we lack in unity and co-operation
look at the 3 que
what have they done?

you're just jealous at the 3 que.
Babyfox143
QUOTE(qwe123 @ Apr 25 2008, 07:49 PM) [snapback]3661723[/snapback]
yes
we're pretty good at putting others down
we lack in unity and co-operation
look at the 3 que
what have they done?


dude u got fkn issues. this thread has nothing to do with politics. yet u can always manage to blame everything, even someone's personal insecurities, on the "3 que".

i take no sides. i am neither vnch or vc. i just hate stupid little kids like you bashing on people with your ignorance. thus i bash back. not in defense for vnch but in opposition to retards like u. I do not enjoy stooping down to your level, but if you're gonna talk to a cockaroach, you have to speak cockaroach. every word out of your mouth is c*nt this, fuk that. so i have to speak in your language for you to understand.

you're just a little kid. open a book and read instead of channeling your hatred on something so useless.
qwe123
QUOTE(vietman @ Apr 28 2008, 12:03 PM) [snapback]3666635[/snapback]
you're just jealous at the 3 que.


why? of what? haha
qwe123
QUOTE(Babyfox143 @ Apr 28 2008, 04:12 PM) [snapback]3666951[/snapback]
dude u got fkn issues. this thread has nothing to do with politics. yet u can always manage to blame everything, even someone's personal insecurities, on the "3 que".

i take no sides. i am neither vnch or vc. i just hate stupid little kids like you bashing on people with your ignorance. thus i bash back. not in defense for vnch but in opposition to retards like u. I do not enjoy stooping down to your level, but if you're gonna talk to a cockaroach, you have to speak cockaroach. every word out of your mouth is c*nt this, fuk that. so i have to speak in your language for you to understand.

you're just a little kid. open a book and read instead of channeling your hatred on something so useless.


oh dear how rude
is that how 3 que children are taught to talk?
i told you
in the real world, im a model student/son/citizen
im a real Chau Ngoan Bac Ho
im extremely polite....so polite i will shame you
ok?
Babyfox143
lol model citizen? model traitor is more like it. you live in america...along with the "3 que". they're probably your neighbors. and you probably say hi to them every morning you hypocrite. model student? yea - receiving american education then bashing american citizens. model son? if your mom saw the way you spoke on here, she will be ashamed to have you as a son.

it's fine to take pride in your commie country. but dont come on here acting like you're some bad as$ hot shiet when you live off the people you hate. you're just another hypocrite that the world can live without.
qwe123
QUOTE(Babyfox143 @ Apr 28 2008, 05:27 PM) [snapback]3667040[/snapback]
lol model citizen? model traitor is more like it. you live in america...along with the "3 que". they're probably your neighbors. and you probably say hi to them every morning you hypocrite. model student? yea - receiving american education then bashing american citizens. model son? if your mom saw the way you spoke on here, she will be ashamed to have you as a son.

it's fine to take pride in your commie country. but dont come on here acting like you're some bad as$ hot shiet when you live off the people you hate. you're just another hypocrite that the world can live without.


when did i bash American citizen?
my mum know that i just want to live my life without joining any political org.
i love her, i just hate the 3 que inside her.
when did i say i hate America?

communism is just an ideology that has never been enforced
if im a hypocrite then what does that make you 3 que?
Babyfox143
so ur mom is a 3 que? wow. hypocrite is an understatement for you buddy.
qwe123
QUOTE(Babyfox143 @ Apr 28 2008, 05:32 PM) [snapback]3667047[/snapback]
so ur mom is a 3 que? wow. hypocrite is an understatement for you buddy.


just because she is doesnt mean i have to.
she has her life, i have mine
Babyfox143
so when u call the 3 que "stupid c*nts", u're also calling ur mom a stupid c*nt. choosing to not associate urself with the "3 que" doesnt give u a right to insult them - and it's even more sad that ur mom is part of the group of ppl ure insulting. ure not only a disgrace to ur "3 que" family, ure also a disgrace to the commie dogs bc of ur hypocrisy. how does it feel to be the sh*thead on both ends?
asean.asia
Hello Cutie Fox. kiss.gif
qwe123
QUOTE(Babyfox143 @ Apr 30 2008, 01:02 AM) [snapback]3670334[/snapback]
so when u call the 3 que "stupid c*nts", u're also calling ur mom a stupid c*nt. choosing to not associate urself with the "3 que" doesnt give u a right to insult them - and it's even more sad that ur mom is part of the group of ppl ure insulting. ure not only a disgrace to ur "3 que" family, ure also a disgrace to the commie dogs bc of ur hypocrisy. how does it feel to be the sh*thead on both ends?


i am me b!tch
so stfu
Babyfox143
yes u are you: the product of a "stupid c*nt"
xeemlauj
materialistic much?????


You do know that people don't care how you look, what car you drive and etc...

Why do you care so much about what people perceive you as? Insecurities?
qwe123
QUOTE(Babyfox143 @ Apr 30 2008, 03:42 PM) [snapback]3671210[/snapback]
yes u are you: the product of a "stupid c*nt"


whya re you so rude? embarassedlaugh.gif
ducluu
fox and qwe, lol u guys even have more hatred than I do. I wonder what will u do when u 2 meet each other?

To others: thanks for ur advice love u all, and hate u all!
anyway, I hope that no one would messed up like me
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