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babieamy012
well my boyfriend is going to vietnam (HCM City) in two days...and im going to phnom penh, cambodia the day after him. basically we want to go on vacation together before school starts but i wont be able to go if i tell my parents that...they are very strict korean parents and also kind of racist against vietnamese people (ugh dont ask me why..i dont get them either). anyway, so i lied and told them i was going to phnom penh for missionary reasons and meeting a friend...so now im in the mess of having them dropping me off at the airport...me getting to cambodia knowing not a single soul.

sooooo basically my question is...is it easy to get from cambodia to vietnam? what mode of transportation would be best to get to HCM City? how much does it cost? is traveling alone safe or should i bring my pepper spray?
Rappapa
HCM City? You mean Saigon icon_rolleyes.gif
supernovasp
Wait, you are Korean or Vietnamese?


Cambodia is a very dangerous place, you could get cheated easily. You have to go with groups rather alone
babieamy012
well im lookin at the map right now and it says HCM city icon_rolleyes.gif
vIeTpRidEs_wOrLdWiDe
QUOTE (babieamy012 @ Aug 11 2004, 09:25 PM)
well im lookin at the map right now and it says HCM city icon_rolleyes.gif

well , the city has 2 name , either HCM city or Saigon is fine . You can get there by airplanes or bus ?? i dont know i never travel to Cambodia myself ...sorry
Johannjs
Have you got also a visa for Vietnam? that one first, and then,

the best would be to buy a flight ticket directly to HCM City. Take your pepper spray with you when in Cambodia... anyway, don't go off beaten-tracks there.
babieamy012
yes i bought a visa for vietnam...i guess i will try to get a flight directly there...do they still have flights even if its so close? hopefully i can get one that is available...if not ill take the greyhound...or whatever the equivalent to taht is over there. i was just worrying about border control and if its strict of whatever between the two countries..
supernovasp
QUOTE (babieamy012 @ Aug 11 2004, 09:45 PM)
yes i bought a visa for vietnam...i guess i will try to get a flight directly there...do they still have flights even if its so close? hopefully i can get one that is available...if not ill take the greyhound...or whatever the equivalent to taht is over there. i was just worrying about border control and if its strict of whatever between the two countries..

I think they have flight from Phnom Penh to HCM city, you should look it up :|
babieamy012
yeah i will that sounds like a good idea icon_smile.gif ....also i have heard that its easy for foreigners to get cheated or robbed in cambodia/vietnam...do you think their is any chance that i can just 'blend in' with everyone else..if i just dressed modestly like in jeans and a t-shirt?
supernovasp
QUOTE (babieamy012 @ Aug 11 2004, 09:50 PM)
yeah i will that sounds like a good idea icon_smile.gif ....also i have heard that its easy for foreigners to get cheated or robbed in cambodia/vietnam...do you think their is any chance that i can just 'blend in' with everyone else..if i just dressed modestly like in jeans and a t-shirt?

Yea don't try anything too flashy..

Vietnam is way less dangerous than Cambodia though icon_smile.gif

I think you and your boyfriend should go to the Vietnamese specialty of flights to Vietnam to plan stuff. They're very helpful
vIeTpRidEs_wOrLdWiDe
QUOTE (babieamy012 @ Aug 11 2004, 09:50 PM)
yeah i will that sounds like a good idea icon_smile.gif ....also i have heard that its easy for foreigners to get cheated or robbed in cambodia/vietnam...do you think their is any chance that i can just 'blend in' with everyone else..if i just dressed modestly like in jeans and a t-shirt?

jeans and t-shirts are fine , Vietnamese girls (city ones) are very modeltly nowaday in Vietnam , especially Saigon
aaronly
QUOTE (babieamy012 @ Aug 11 2004, 09:50 PM)
yeah i will that sounds like a good idea icon_smile.gif ....also i have heard that its easy for foreigners to get cheated or robbed in cambodia/vietnam...do you think their is any chance that i can just 'blend in' with everyone else..if i just dressed modestly like in jeans and a t-shirt?

becareful, dont set your foot in cambodia that place is very lawless, whatever you do just stay on the plane and head to saigon
Johannjs
QUOTE (babieamy012 @ Aug 12 2004, 04:50 AM)
yeah i will that sounds like a good idea icon_smile.gif ....also i have heard that its easy for foreigners to get cheated or robbed in cambodia/vietnam...do you think their is any chance that i can just 'blend in' with everyone else..if i just dressed modestly like in jeans and a t-shirt?

Vietnam has been pacified for a longtime now. Security everywhere. But things happen in Cambodia sometimes.

Yeah, there should be flights linking the 2 cities, although probably not many per day. You could enquire at your travel agent's right now? It's not too late, and they know.

Otherwise, there are air-conditioned comfort coaches directly to HCM City, probably one or two per day. Coaches normally leave early in the morning, and the fare is less costly that a flight.
supernovasp
QUOTE (Johannjs @ Aug 11 2004, 10:01 PM)
QUOTE (babieamy012 @ Aug 12 2004, 04:50 AM)
yeah i will that sounds like a good idea icon_smile.gif ....also i have heard that its easy for foreigners to get cheated or robbed in cambodia/vietnam...do you think their is any chance that i can just 'blend in' with everyone else..if i just dressed modestly like in jeans and a t-shirt?

Vietnam has been pacified for a longtime now. Security everywhere. But things happen in Cambodia sometimes.

Yeah, there should be flights linking the 2 cities, although probably not many per day. You could enquire at your travel agent's right now? It's not too late, and they know.

Otherwise, there are air-conditioned comfort coaches directly to HCM City, probably one or two per day. Coaches normally leave early in the morning, and the fare is less costly that a flight.

haha

I was looking for the word "agent"

Yea go with your boyfriend to Vietnam and Asia specialty Asian to plan things out. It's the best and the safest way
福州市长
bring some sun screen..
Johannjs
QUOTE (supernovasp @ Aug 12 2004, 05:02 AM)
QUOTE (Johannjs @ Aug 11 2004, 10:01 PM)
QUOTE (babieamy012 @ Aug 12 2004, 04:50 AM)
yeah i will that sounds like a good idea icon_smile.gif ....also i have heard that its easy for foreigners to get cheated or robbed in cambodia/vietnam...do you think their is any chance that i can just 'blend in' with everyone else..if i just dressed modestly like in jeans and a t-shirt?

Vietnam has been pacified for a longtime now. Security everywhere. But things happen in Cambodia sometimes.

Yeah, there should be flights linking the 2 cities, although probably not many per day. You could enquire at your travel agent's right now? It's not too late, and they know.

Otherwise, there are air-conditioned comfort coaches directly to HCM City, probably one or two per day. Coaches normally leave early in the morning, and the fare is less costly that a flight.

haha

I was looking for the word "agent"

Yea go with your boyfriend to Vietnam and Asia specialty Asian to plan things out. It's the best and the safest way

You can laugh! That's English, not "American English".

OK. See that with someone at your travel agency.
fiji
This is great, your story sounds like it could be made into a series already.

Why didn't you stop at bangkok, then Vietnam, it would be much safer. Cambodia is kinda lawless and for a girl to travel by herself, I'm a bit concerned for you. Or why don't you ask your bf to fly to Phomn Penh with you, then to VN. I still think it's unsafe for a girl to be traveling around like that.
Byron
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vIeTpRidEs_wOrLdWiDe
QUOTE (Byron @ Aug 11 2004, 10:31 PM)
Cambodia has a high rate of gang rapes. I believe 30% of all kids 11-14 have been sexually assaulted at least once.

If someone confronts you make sure you and your boyfriend don't even mention the word "Vietnamese" or Vietnam at all or your dead.

lol dont scare her man !! embarassedlaugh.gif
babieamy012
oh wow...yea that does sound kind of scary...are they not have good relationship with vietnam or something? ill be sure to bring my pepper spray and maybe mom's little electric shock thing...and if i run into any bad people i can call the police right? whats the equivalent of 911 over there?
vIeTpRidEs_wOrLdWiDe
QUOTE (babieamy012 @ Aug 12 2004, 12:07 AM)
oh wow...yea that does sound kind of scary...are they not have good relationship with vietnam or something? ill be sure to bring my pepper spray and maybe mom's little electric shock thing...and if i run into any bad people i can call the police right? whats the equivalent of 911 over there?

Cambodians dont like Vietnamese , i dont know about in Cambodia , but in Vietnam , its 113
aaronly
QUOTE (babieamy012 @ Aug 12 2004, 12:07 AM)
oh wow...yea that does sound kind of scary...are they not have good relationship with vietnam or something? ill be sure to bring my pepper spray and maybe mom's little electric shock thing...and if i run into any bad people i can call the police right? whats the equivalent of 911 over there?

if you are in vietnam you are fine, but if you are in cambodia it is like being in the wild wild west
Byron
QUOTE (babieamy012 @ Aug 12 2004, 12:07 AM)
oh wow...yea that does sound kind of scary...are they not have good relationship with vietnam or something? ill be sure to bring my pepper spray and maybe mom's little electric shock thing...and if i run into any bad people i can call the police right? whats the equivalent of 911 over there?

Your South Korean right? So I guess you won't be in trouble, but as for your Vietnamese boyfriend. Just make sure he doesn't do the talking in Cambodia since they can spot accents. Yes Vietnamese are the Cambodians most hated enemy.

As for the police don't bother, they are corrupted and will probably join in attacking you unless you bribe tehm or something.
福州市长
hehe yeah.. when i was in vietnam and it took them so long to exam my passport, so i give him 5 dollars US dollar they just let me go
vIeTpRidEs_wOrLdWiDe
QUOTE (Byron @ Aug 12 2004, 08:27 AM)
QUOTE (babieamy012 @ Aug 12 2004, 12:07 AM)
oh wow...yea that does sound kind of scary...are they not have good relationship with vietnam or something? ill be sure to bring my pepper spray and maybe mom's little electric shock thing...and if i run into any bad people i can call the police right? whats the equivalent of 911 over there?

Your South Korean right? So I guess you won't be in trouble, but as for your Vietnamese boyfriend. Just make sure he doesn't do the talking in Cambodia since they can spot accents. Yes Vietnamese are the Cambodians most hated enemy.

As for the police don't bother, they are corrupted and will probably join in attacking you unless you bribe tehm or something.

they are not corrupted , have u ever been back there , try 113 , they'll be right where u at in 5 mins . If someone threaten u , say u'll call 113 , even gangsters will not want to mess with u haha , im dead serious
Byron
QUOTE (福州市长 @ Aug 12 2004, 08:36 AM)
hehe yeah.. when i was in vietnam and it took them so long to exam my passport, so i give him 5 dollars US dollar they just let me go

Your best bet is to find a white person and go in front of him. Usually the customs don't want to bother the white person so when they exam you, it will be very fast so the white guy won't have to wait very long since it's very difficult to get a bribe from a white guy since they can't speak Vietnamese and for some reason they love sucking up to the whites.
福州市长
no body was behide me that time..
babieamy012
hmmm interesting...bribing? i guess i will give that i try but i hope i dont have to...not cuz of the money but i just dont feel comfortble doing something like that.
as for the whole cambodian people not liking vietnamese...this is the first i have known of that...i better tell vinh to just stay in vietnam and ill just try to catch a flight or train over there. ummm...someone told me to call 1180...or something like taht if i get lost? or was it...8120...O_o?
cds
QUOTE (babieamy012 @ Aug 12 2004, 12:03 PM)
hmmm interesting...bribing? i guess i will give that i try but i hope i dont have to...not cuz of the money but i just dont feel comfortble doing something like that.
as for the whole cambodian people not liking vietnamese...this is the first i have known of that...i better tell vinh to just stay in vietnam and ill just try to catch a flight or train over there. ummm...someone told me to call 1180...or something like taht if i get lost? or was it...8120...O_o?

There's a Korean section in Saigon (HCM city) since there're a lot of S Korean doing business in Vietnam now. So you should be OK there. I wonder why you have to stop over in Cambodia? You can stop over in Hong Kong or Taipei, no?
Why your parents don't like Vietnamese? I know some Korean/Viet intermarriage without any problem though.
Maybe Byron can escort you all the way to Ankor Wat, right Byron?
babieamy012
haha now that i think about it maybe i should have gone somewhere else but i just picked cambodia because i wanted the closest place to vietnam...

vietnamese and korean intermarriage without any problems? wow i guess their parents must be really cool then, maybe living in the US for a few generations already or just really cool...

but as for most koreans my parents' age that i know they are really close-minded and look down on vietnamese people because they come from a poor country and they dont like the food etc etc...yeah i know stupid $hit but their old and they will never change...i hate it...i was talking to my friends little 13 year old brother and when i mentioned my boyfriend vinh he was like...'oh my mom told me not to date vietnamese people or other south asians or chinese.'...its sick how they try to teach it to the young ones..
vi3tlamgurl
QUOTE (babieamy012 @ Aug 12 2004, 12:32 PM)
haha now that i think about it maybe i should have gone somewhere else but i just picked cambodia because i wanted the closest place to vietnam...

vietnamese and korean intermarriage without any problems? wow i guess their parents must be really cool then, maybe living in the US for a few generations already or just really cool...

but as for most koreans my parents' age that i know they are really close-minded and look down on vietnamese people because they come from a poor country and they dont like the food etc etc...yeah i know stupid $hit but their old and they will never change...i hate it...i was talking to my friends little 13 year old brother and when i mentioned my boyfriend vinh he was like...'oh my mom told me not to date vietnamese people or other south asians or chinese.'...its sick how they try to teach it to the young ones..

hmm..my parents dont want mt to go out or even marry anyone but viet. its wierd cz im part cantonese and they dont want me to marry any1 cantonese either..lol..hmm..i dont really care what they think..i just want to marry someone i love.. icon_smile.gif
Byron
QUOTE (vi3tlamgurl @ Aug 12 2004, 01:14 PM)
QUOTE (babieamy012 @ Aug 12 2004, 12:32 PM)
haha now that i think about it maybe i should have gone somewhere else but i just picked cambodia because i wanted the closest place to vietnam...

vietnamese and korean intermarriage without any problems? wow i guess their parents must be really cool then, maybe living in the US for a few generations already or just really cool...

but as for most koreans my parents' age that i know they are really close-minded and look down on vietnamese people because they come from a poor country and they dont like the food etc etc...yeah i know stupid $hit but their old and they will never change...i hate it...i was talking to my friends little 13 year old brother and when i mentioned my boyfriend vinh he was like...'oh my mom told me not to date vietnamese people or other south asians or chinese.'...its sick how they try to teach it to the young ones..

hmm..my parents dont want mt to go out or even marry anyone but viet. its wierd cz im part cantonese and they dont want me to marry any1 cantonese either..lol..hmm..i dont really care what they think..i just want to marry someone i love.. icon_smile.gif

Listen to your parents. The Vietnamese race must remain pure. JUST JOKING. I don't care.
vi3tlamgurl
QUOTE (Byron @ Aug 12 2004, 01:17 PM)
QUOTE (vi3tlamgurl @ Aug 12 2004, 01:14 PM)
QUOTE (babieamy012 @ Aug 12 2004, 12:32 PM)
haha now that i think about it maybe i should have gone somewhere else but i just picked cambodia because i wanted the closest place to vietnam...

vietnamese and korean intermarriage without any problems? wow i guess their parents must be really cool then, maybe living in the US for a few generations already or just really cool...

but as for most koreans my parents' age that i know they are really close-minded and look down on vietnamese people because they come from a poor country and they dont like the food etc etc...yeah i know stupid $hit but their old and they will never change...i hate it...i was talking to my friends little 13 year old brother and when i mentioned my boyfriend vinh he was like...'oh my mom told me not to date vietnamese people or other south asians or chinese.'...its sick how they try to teach it to the young ones..

hmm..my parents dont want mt to go out or even marry anyone but viet. its wierd cz im part cantonese and they dont want me to marry any1 cantonese either..lol..hmm..i dont really care what they think..i just want to marry someone i love.. icon_smile.gif

Listen to your parents. The Vietnamese race must remain pure.

lol..hmm..well its not that pure right now..lol..most of my czins are marryin chinese..so hmm i duno..but ill never know who ill marry till i find them..lol
vIeTpRidEs_wOrLdWiDe
QUOTE (vi3tlamgurl @ Aug 12 2004, 01:26 PM)
QUOTE (Byron @ Aug 12 2004, 01:17 PM)
QUOTE (vi3tlamgurl @ Aug 12 2004, 01:14 PM)
QUOTE (babieamy012 @ Aug 12 2004, 12:32 PM)
haha now that i think about it maybe i should have gone somewhere else but i just picked cambodia because i wanted the closest place to vietnam...

vietnamese and korean intermarriage without any problems? wow i guess their parents must be really cool then, maybe living in the US for a few generations already or just really cool...

but as for most koreans my parents' age that i know they are really close-minded and look down on vietnamese people because they come from a poor country and they dont like the food etc etc...yeah i know stupid $hit but their old and they will never change...i hate it...i was talking to my friends little 13 year old brother and when i mentioned my boyfriend vinh he was like...'oh my mom told me not to date vietnamese people or other south asians or chinese.'...its sick how they try to teach it to the young ones..

hmm..my parents dont want mt to go out or even marry anyone but viet. its wierd cz im part cantonese and they dont want me to marry any1 cantonese either..lol..hmm..i dont really care what they think..i just want to marry someone i love.. icon_smile.gif

Listen to your parents. The Vietnamese race must remain pure.

lol..hmm..well its not that pure right now..lol..most of my czins are marryin chinese..so hmm i duno..but ill never know who ill marry till i find them..lol

u dont marry the ppl who ur cousin marry to , would u . Just marry the one u love !! either Viet or whatever
cds
QUOTE (vi3tlamgurl @ Aug 12 2004, 01:14 PM)
hmm..my parents dont want mt to go out or even marry anyone but viet. its wierd cz im part cantonese and they dont want me to marry any1 cantonese either..lol..hmm..i dont really care what they think..i just want to marry someone i love.. icon_smile.gif

Do you prefer fish sauce or soy sauce? embarassedlaugh.gif
I know you have some Chinese blood in you, that's why I ask embarassedlaugh.gif
Make you parents happy, marry a Viet icon_wink.gif
vi3tlamgurl
vIeTpRidEs_wOrLdWiDe - thats what i mean..im just tellin bryon that the "family blodd"( i guess haha) isnt pure viet. thats all..and yeah im gunna marry someone i love..im not just gunna marry sum1 cz my czins are marryin them but yeah

cds - hmm i liek both sauces..i leik fish sauce with my spring rolls or that one peanut sauce..and as for soy sauce..i like eatin it with rice..lol...yeah i want to make my parents happy and marry a viet..but sometimes i feel like wouldnt they want me to be happy either?..but yeha..what i feel right now..i want to marry someone atleast asian..but hmm..its kidna funny..my parents are pretty strick when it comes to boys tongue.gif ..but when it comes to VIETNAMESE boys..they dont care..haha biggthumpup.gif but yeah

oh and sorry by the way to anyone about the way i type cz i tend really fast so i end up missin sum keys or typin wierd stuff lol..so SORRY!
Byron
http://news.yahoo.com/news?tmpl=story&...me_040812142855

QUOTE
Canadian tourists stabbed at beachside hut in Cambodia

Thu Aug 12,10:28 AM ET 


PHNOM PENH (AFP) - Two Canadians holidaying in Cambodia's seaside resort of Sihanoukville were knifed by a thief who broke into their beachside bungalow in the night, police said.

 

The man and woman, aged 24 and 25, were asleep in their bungalow with a 21-year-old British woman when the thief broke in early Wednesday, Tak Vantha, deputy police chief of Sihanoukville, told AFP.


"While he was stealing their money, about 500 dollars, the Canadian man awoke and fought with him before the woman also woke and joined in," he said.


He said the woman was seriously hurt but her companion suffered only minor wounds. Both were admitted to a Phnom Penh hospital.


The guesthouses in the area, on a headland of popular Occheuteal beach, were illegally built, he said. "There's a lot of forest and rocks around."


Five Japanese women were being robbed at gunpoint in their hotel room in the capital earlier this month.


Muggings are common in Cambodia, where a sense of lawlessness and gun culture remains after decades of civil war that ended in 1998, but such serious attacks on foreigners have been rare.
link
byron, what is the deal between u and the cambodian? there are crimes not only in cambodia but all over the world. u must know that
vi3tlamgurl
^ yup very true
福州市长
QUOTE (vi3tlamgurl @ Aug 12 2004, 01:14 PM)
QUOTE (babieamy012 @ Aug 12 2004, 12:32 PM)
haha now that i think about it maybe i should have gone somewhere else but i just picked cambodia because i wanted the closest place to vietnam...

vietnamese and korean intermarriage without any problems? wow i guess their parents must be really cool then, maybe living in the US for a few generations already or just really cool...

but as for most koreans my parents' age that i know they are really close-minded and look down on vietnamese people because they come from a poor country and they dont like the food etc etc...yeah i know stupid $hit but their old and they will never change...i hate it...i was talking to my friends little 13 year old brother and when i mentioned my boyfriend vinh he was like...'oh my mom told me not to date vietnamese people or other south asians or chinese.'...its sick how they try to teach it to the young ones..

hmm..my parents dont want mt to go out or even marry anyone but viet. its wierd cz im part cantonese and they dont want me to marry any1 cantonese either..lol..hmm..i dont really care what they think..i just want to marry someone i love.. icon_smile.gif

i'm chinese my parents don't let me marry with cantonese either..even though i'm chinese
Byron
QUOTE (福州市长 @ Aug 12 2004, 07:51 PM)
QUOTE (vi3tlamgurl @ Aug 12 2004, 01:14 PM)
QUOTE (babieamy012 @ Aug 12 2004, 12:32 PM)
haha now that i think about it maybe i should have gone somewhere else but i just picked cambodia because i wanted the closest place to vietnam...

vietnamese and korean intermarriage without any problems? wow i guess their parents must be really cool then, maybe living in the US for a few generations already or just really cool...

but as for most koreans my parents' age that i know they are really close-minded and look down on vietnamese people because they come from a poor country and they dont like the food etc etc...yeah i know stupid $hit but their old and they will never change...i hate it...i was talking to my friends little 13 year old brother and when i mentioned my boyfriend vinh he was like...'oh my mom told me not to date vietnamese people or other south asians or chinese.'...its sick how they try to teach it to the young ones..

hmm..my parents dont want mt to go out or even marry anyone but viet. its wierd cz im part cantonese and they dont want me to marry any1 cantonese either..lol..hmm..i dont really care what they think..i just want to marry someone i love.. icon_smile.gif

i'm chinese my parents don't let me marry with cantonese either..even though i'm chinese

Aren't Catonese Han? Why would your parents not want you to marry someone of YOUR OWN RACE?
Cold_As_Ice
babieamy012 hasn't been on here for awhile. I think she has been kidnapped by Cambodians. embarassedlaugh.gif sure.gif shifty.gif
herosword
QUOTE (福州市长 @ Aug 12 2004, 07:51 PM)
QUOTE (vi3tlamgurl @ Aug 12 2004, 01:14 PM)
QUOTE (babieamy012 @ Aug 12 2004, 12:32 PM)
haha now that i think about it maybe i should have gone somewhere else but i just picked cambodia because i wanted the closest place to vietnam...

vietnamese and korean intermarriage without any problems? wow i guess their parents must be really cool then, maybe living in the US for a few generations already or just really cool...

but as for most koreans my parents' age that i know they are really close-minded and look down on vietnamese people because they come from a poor country and they dont like the food etc etc...yeah i know stupid $hit but their old and they will never change...i hate it...i was talking to my friends little 13 year old brother and when i mentioned my boyfriend vinh he was like...'oh my mom told me not to date vietnamese people or other south asians or chinese.'...its sick how they try to teach it to the young ones..

hmm..my parents dont want mt to go out or even marry anyone but viet. its wierd cz im part cantonese and they dont want me to marry any1 cantonese either..lol..hmm..i dont really care what they think..i just want to marry someone i love.. icon_smile.gif

i'm chinese my parents don't let me marry with cantonese either..even though i'm chinese

That's really weird. Why not? Do you want to marry a Chinese person or do you not particularly care?
justinqu
man, that's how old forks are, they just have thier own program, but whatever it is, just go with your heart and mind. Like my parents, at first they don't want us to marry or date any other ethnics, but well, we convinced them and they don't care about that much any more. They don't mary the one that we're going to marry, we are the one that live with whoever we're marry right? shiet, they just want me to finish my degree, get a good job, then i can do whatever i want, they won't interfere, and it is cool that i'm getting there. But it's kinda tough to make everyone happy ya know, especially our parents, they just want the best for us, but sometime it doesn't work out and gets very annoying.

BTW why don't you ask your travel agent to change the ticket, instead of flying to Cambodia, you go straight to VN, they will do it if they want them to.
康师傅
QUOTE (Byron @ Aug 12 2004, 07:54 PM)
QUOTE (福州市长 @ Aug 12 2004, 07:51 PM)
QUOTE (vi3tlamgurl @ Aug 12 2004, 01:14 PM)
QUOTE (babieamy012 @ Aug 12 2004, 12:32 PM)
haha now that i think about it maybe i should have gone somewhere else but i just picked cambodia because i wanted the closest place to vietnam...

vietnamese and korean intermarriage without any problems? wow i guess their parents must be really cool then, maybe living in the US for a few generations already or just really cool...

but as for most koreans my parents' age that i know they are really close-minded and look down on vietnamese people because they come from a poor country and they dont like the food etc etc...yeah i know stupid $hit but their old and they will never change...i hate it...i was talking to my friends little 13 year old brother and when i mentioned my boyfriend vinh he was like...'oh my mom told me not to date vietnamese people or other south asians or chinese.'...its sick how they try to teach it to the young ones..

hmm..my parents dont want mt to go out or even marry anyone but viet. its wierd cz im part cantonese and they dont want me to marry any1 cantonese either..lol..hmm..i dont really care what they think..i just want to marry someone i love.. icon_smile.gif

i'm chinese my parents don't let me marry with cantonese either..even though i'm chinese

Aren't Catonese Han? Why would your parents not want you to marry someone of YOUR OWN RACE?
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oh.. they said cantonese are spoil..they never save their money.. that's why u see cantonese homeless in Chinatown.. i guess it just culture difference
fujisan_8
QUOTE (babieamy012 @ Aug 11 2004, 09:22 PM)
well my boyfriend is going to vietnam (HCM City) in two days...and im going to phnom penh, cambodia the day after him. basically we want to go on vacation together before school starts but i wont be able to go if i tell my parents that...they are very strict korean parents and also kind of racist against vietnamese people (ugh dont ask me why..i dont get them either). anyway, so i lied and told them i was going to phnom penh for missionary reasons and meeting a friend...so now im in the mess of having them dropping me off at the airport...me getting to cambodia knowing not a single soul.

    sooooo basically my question is...is it easy to get from cambodia to vietnam? what mode of transportation would be best to get to HCM City? how much does it cost? is traveling alone safe or should i bring my pepper spray?
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Dont worry, I suffer from my mother's PRO CHINESE stance as well, no to marrying non Chinese girls. But dont worry, I dont listen to her and so you shouldnt, follow ur heart!!!

Speaking about Cambodia, it is fu-kING dangerous I tell ya, I've personally been there like once (near border w/Vietnam). They hate all Viets I tell ya...
wildkhmerbuddha
ignorant viet toward cambodian people.

QUOTE (supernovasp @ Aug 11 2004, 09:25 PM)
Wait, you are Korean or Vietnamese?


Cambodia is a very dangerous place, you could get cheated easily. You have to go with groups rather alone
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wildkhmerbuddha
here is another one.
perhape all viet have that kind of hate toward cambodian people, inside ofcourse, but outside they be preaching peace.

dont go vietnam, that country is a mess. after you step into their land, the dong chi vietcong be mocking at you like crazy then you need to give them some money. their airport is full of bunkers and old war planes, way to ghetto and you difinately not going to feel comfortable with them. then you also have to watch out, a lot of peoples been kidnaped infront of saigon airport. where phnom penh international airport is way better and safe.

QUOTE (aaronly @ Aug 11 2004, 09:53 PM)
QUOTE (babieamy012 @ Aug 11 2004, 09:50 PM)
yeah i will that sounds like a good idea icon_smile.gif ....also i have heard that its easy for foreigners to get cheated or robbed in cambodia/vietnam...do you think their is any chance that i can just 'blend in' with everyone else..if i just dressed modestly like in jeans and a t-shirt?

becareful, dont set your foot in cambodia that place is very lawless, whatever you do just stay on the plane and head to saigon
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justinqu
QUOTE (wildkhmerbuddha @ Nov 11 2004, 05:29 AM)
here is another one.
perhape all viet have that kind of hate toward cambodian people, inside ofcourse, but outside they be preaching peace.

dont go vietnam, that country is a mess. after you step into their land, the dong chi vietcong be mocking at you like crazy then you need to give them some money. their airport is full of bunkers and old war planes, way to ghetto and you difinately not going to feel comfortable with them. then you also have to watch out, a lot of peoples been kidnaped infront of saigon airport. where phnom penh international airport is way better and safe. 

QUOTE (aaronly @ Aug 11 2004, 09:53 PM)
QUOTE (babieamy012 @ Aug 11 2004, 09:50 PM)
yeah i will that sounds like a good idea icon_smile.gif ....also i have heard that its easy for foreigners to get cheated or robbed in cambodia/vietnam...do you think their is any chance that i can just 'blend in' with everyone else..if i just dressed modestly like in jeans and a t-shirt?

becareful, dont set your foot in cambodia that place is very lawless, whatever you do just stay on the plane and head to saigon
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""'[quote=wildkhmerbuddha,Nov 11 2004, 05:29 AM]
here is another one.
perhape all viet have that kind of hate toward cambodian people, inside ofcourse, but outside they be preaching peace"" WHOW!!! hold on there buddy, your statment is out of loop here, when you said "all" that means every single one of us Viet have hatress toward Cambodian people, that is totally wrong, I don't, my best buddy is Cambodian, and I'm Vietnamese, shiet roy, don't count the chicken before they hatch, some good and some bad you know, and if you're all afraid of going to other countries then don't, and them "dong chi viet cong" give a crap, well then woops their freaking @ss, speaka English with them, show them who you really are, they'll back down, i mean as long as you do something legally, who gives a darn about them, btw, i planned on going to Cambodia next Summer with few buddies of mine, anyone wanna joins us???? biggrin.gif biggrin.gif
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