QUOTE(miss_merisha @ Jan 8 2007, 01:55 AM) [snapback]2633798[/snapback]
My aunt tells me there are differences between people from North and South of Vietnam....
What are they?
North Vietnamese: In the old days of almighty kings and their powerful mandarins, northerners especially the capital's people developed some kind of defensive mechanism to keep their heads from leaving their necks. They were living near the "sun", if they were not careful with their words or didn't know how to keep their mouth shut, they could easily "get burned", losing not only their heads, but also the heads of 3 generations of their family members. Over the years, they became suspicious of suggestions, new ideas, and of changes. They were afraid of frank talks, of direct and open discussions. These characteristics were seen by outsiders as being evasive, diplomatic, and conservative.
Living under the abusive power of kings and mandarins for a long time (at least one thousands years under Vietnamese kings, not to mention another thousand years of harsh Chinese rule) has seen many northerners develop some kind of catering, bending, and toadying attitude towards people of high position and influence. The northerners have learned that to get things done, they might have to flatter and bend a little.
North Vietnam was a region plagued by yearly drought and floods, the majority of the people were poor farmers having a hard time to make ends meet, not to mention the heavy taxes burden put on their heads by abusive native kings and brutal foreign rules. Over the years, they developed a thrifty habit often seen as being stingy.
South Vietnamese: Many southerners could trace their roots all the way back to the north. Their ancestors were mostly poor peasants who, facing poverty and hunger, had to leave their ancestral land to seek a new life with new opportunities in the new lands conquered by the Nguyen Lords' push to the south starting as early as the 17th century.
The early settlers found themselves on vast, fertile, and thinly populated lands. South Vietnam was a region blessed with favorable climate, abundant crops, fruits, and fisheries. Living far away from the king and his court, even the Nguyen Lords adopted policies in favor of the new comers to encourage more people to come and live in the conquered territories, the early southerners gradually developed new ways of thinking and doing things quite different from those of their northern compatriots.
The southerners were more direct and open, in favor of direct and frank talks, they didn't like to beat around the bush. (This southern straightforwardness was seen by many northerners as being unsophisticated.) Living a relatively easy lifestyle due to favorable conditions, the southerners seemed to be generous to each other and even to strangers. Many of them, especially the well-to-do, seemed to spend money with a worry-free attitude.
Conclusion: It could be said northerners are more conservative, bound by traditions, while southerners are more open, direct, and adaptive to changes. This northern, conservative pull plus the southern liberal push will serve as a check and balance to create an equilibrium for the country to advance steadily into the 21st century.